htown2DAboot
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A really good friend of mine is dealing with this sitch with his wife...*sigh*
Background info: His wife has/had a dog she'd been attached to for 5 years. Raised the dog from a pup up.
My friend was out in the backyard with his stepsons this weekend, throwing around the football and playing with his wife's dog. He opened the gate for them to go around to the front of the house and forgot to close the gate back. Meanwhile, the dog gets out and wonders away. His wife is FURIOUS, and sad, upset, ect that my friend "let" the dog get away. He tries his hardest to make her feel better. Over the next few days, he and his stepsons go house to house in three neighborhoods looking for this dog, but come up empty. My friend even went so far as to buy her a new puppy...But no dice. His wife is STILL angry. Gives my friend the cold shoulder. Spends more time talking on Facebook and texting other people than talking to him. Just completely ignoring him. Can't even look him in the eye. He's begged for her forgiveness OVER AND OVER AND OVER again. He's made it clear that he's sorry, and is willing to do ANYTHING to help her through the pain, anger, etc. After more silence, my friend asks his wife: "Is this one mistake I made, losing your dog, big enough to hurt our relationship?" She tells him "I don't know right now". My friend is extra hurt, confused, and sad. But also pretty pissed off. He doesn't want to lose his wife over this dog. But she seems unwilling (as of now) to work through her anger towards him. What are the next steps he should take?
Background info: His wife has/had a dog she'd been attached to for 5 years. Raised the dog from a pup up.
My friend was out in the backyard with his stepsons this weekend, throwing around the football and playing with his wife's dog. He opened the gate for them to go around to the front of the house and forgot to close the gate back. Meanwhile, the dog gets out and wonders away. His wife is FURIOUS, and sad, upset, ect that my friend "let" the dog get away. He tries his hardest to make her feel better. Over the next few days, he and his stepsons go house to house in three neighborhoods looking for this dog, but come up empty. My friend even went so far as to buy her a new puppy...But no dice. His wife is STILL angry. Gives my friend the cold shoulder. Spends more time talking on Facebook and texting other people than talking to him. Just completely ignoring him. Can't even look him in the eye. He's begged for her forgiveness OVER AND OVER AND OVER again. He's made it clear that he's sorry, and is willing to do ANYTHING to help her through the pain, anger, etc. After more silence, my friend asks his wife: "Is this one mistake I made, losing your dog, big enough to hurt our relationship?" She tells him "I don't know right now". My friend is extra hurt, confused, and sad. But also pretty pissed off. He doesn't want to lose his wife over this dog. But she seems unwilling (as of now) to work through her anger towards him. What are the next steps he should take?
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