MzLady78
Well-Known Member
So, I've been seeing this guy for almost a month.
He has a 3 y/o son and is a wonderful father. I normally try to avoid dudes with kids, but when your dating pool age range is stops at 42, 43, it's a little difficult.![Roll Eyes :rolleyes: :rolleyes:](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
His son's mother has a daughter. When we first started talking, he told me that when he goes to get his son, a lot of times he'll take them both. If they're out and he buys his son something, he'll buy it for her too. He feels even though she's not his child, that's his son's sister, so he's not gonna treat her less than he treats his son.
Now, I was both
and
when he told me this, and to this day when he says something like "I gotta pick up the kids from school", I kind of squirm a little a bit. Like, I think it's kinda sweet, but I don't FULLY get, if that makes any sense. He has a really good relationship with his son's mother, which is always my number 1 concern when dealing with men with children. And before any asks, I don't have any reason to believe there's still anything going on between them (I know the child being so young might raise an eyebrow from some). According to him, he just doesn't want his son to grow up with the same jacked up family dynamic he grew up with.
Would having so much to do with this other child make you uncomfortable? Would you feel differently if you were serious, versus just dating? What about if you ended up marrying this person?
Not seeking advice or anything because there isn't anything TO do, it is what it is. I'm just curious as to how you feel?
He has a 3 y/o son and is a wonderful father. I normally try to avoid dudes with kids, but when your dating pool age range is stops at 42, 43, it's a little difficult.
His son's mother has a daughter. When we first started talking, he told me that when he goes to get his son, a lot of times he'll take them both. If they're out and he buys his son something, he'll buy it for her too. He feels even though she's not his child, that's his son's sister, so he's not gonna treat her less than he treats his son.
Now, I was both
![Yep :yep: :yep:](/smilies/yep.gif)
![Look :look: :look:](/smilies/look.gif)
Would having so much to do with this other child make you uncomfortable? Would you feel differently if you were serious, versus just dating? What about if you ended up marrying this person?
Not seeking advice or anything because there isn't anything TO do, it is what it is. I'm just curious as to how you feel?