How To Attract A Rich Man

Meeting rich men is pretty easy for me. One thing that has helped me is that I appear to be very modest with an outgoing personality. I’m not high maintenance at all. They never know I’m looking for something till later on. lol!! Pair that with going to good happy hours, gyms, fundraisers then you have a good plan. However, most times I find them when I’m not looking for them....just to be honest. They just drop out of nowhere. Lol
 
Erika Jayne was on Wendy Williams today. Erika talked about how she met her husband and it reminded me of this thread and Taylor B. Jones's podcast.

Wendy asked "How do you just bump into a millionaire?"

Erika said "You don't. You put yourself in those places."

She was a cocktail waitress and he was her customer for a year before they started dating.

He had his secretary call Erika to set up their first date. She told the secretary that if he wanted to go out with her he'd have to call her and ask her himself, so he did.

For anyone not familiar with Erika Jayne, she's on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and her husband is a trial attorney. They've been married for 18 years.
 
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Wendy asked "How do you just bump into a millionaire?"

Erika said "You don't. You put yourself in those places."

I try to tell folks this and they don't listen it is actually easy to meet them.
Dating them or keeping them is different but meeting them is easy.

Lamborghini Festival is coming in Oct. Any smart single woman would
should be trying to be all up and through that thang. At the track at the
display of the cars at the dinners every where. And it happens yearly.

Single women wanting the high life should set their social calendar around
annual events of the rich. (It doesn't mean you need a big budget either)

Las Vegas City of lights Jazz festival was good to me so was Long Beach & Playboy
Jazz festivals. Do I love jazz no. But I went in my all white and enjoyed myself with my
girlfriends and I made sure to branch off alone because no man wants to have to fight
your friends just to have a conversation with you.

edited to add: food and wine festivals those are jackpots I think Conde Nast or Food & Wine
puts on one
 
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Erika Jayne was on Wendy Williams today. Erika talked about how she met her husband and it reminded me of this thread and Taylor B. Jones's podcast.

Wendy asked "How do you just bump into a millionaire?"

Erika said "You don't. You put yourself in those places."

She was a cocktail waitress and he was her customer for a year before they started dating.

He had his secretary call Erika to set up their first date. She told the secretary that if he wanted to go out with her he'd have to call her and ask her himself, so he did.

For anyone not familiar with Erika Jayne, she's on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and her husband is a trial attorney. They've been married for 18 years.

Thank you for sharing this!! I absolutely love Erika Jayne, but wasnt aware of how she met her husband.
 
@PretteePlease and all other SMEs Lol

Okay, so Im going to Europe in a couple weeks and will be between London and Saltash for 3 wks for work and have 10 days to country hop afterwards. Are there any specific European cities I should visit to meet wealthy men?

I'll also be in Vegas for a conference on Halloween weekend. Any restaurants, hotels or casinos I need to check out?

Thank in advance yall!!
 
One part of my lifestyle has been set in stone (yayyyyy!), Im going to be all in this thread.

Advice needed: I met a whale the other day. He insisted I take his number.. he’s reached out a few times and I wasn’t responsive (was working/busy), then he went on a business trip and hasn’t reached out since.

How do you ladies usually deal with a situation like this?
 
One part of my lifestyle has been set in stone (yayyyyy!), Im going to be all in this thread.

Advice needed: I met a whale the other day. He insisted I take his number.. he’s reached out a few times and I wasn’t responsive (was working/busy), then he went on a business trip and hasn’t reached out since.

How do you ladies usually deal with a situation like this?

If he seems like a good potential mate, I'd drop a hello, hope ur doing well and hopefully he'll take the lead from there
 
@PretteePlease and all other SMEs Lol

Okay, so Im going to Europe in a couple weeks and will be between London and Saltash for 3 wks for work and have 10 days to country hop afterwards. Are there any specific European cities I should visit to meet wealthy men?

I'll also be in Vegas for a conference on Halloween weekend. Any restaurants, hotels or casinos I need to check out?

Thank in advance yall!!

Switzerland is the land of the loot but I think you can find a rich dude almost anywhere. London should have some hot spots
but I've never been alone to be able to hunt for a man so my advice is research research be open and research! Find a steakhouse
and post up :lachen:
 
Getting back in the game. I'm working in the most famous financial district in the world. Gotta get out and about with purpose. I'm at a steakhouse happy hour as we speak.
meet anyone interesting?

There is a place called La Peep here on Westheimer a rich dude told me he calls it home of the billionaire breakfast
he took me there one morning nothin but dudes in suits I never went back alone.
 
meet anyone interesting?

There is a place called La Peep here on Westheimer a rich dude told me he calls it home of the billionaire breakfast
he took me there one morning nothin but dudes in suits I never went back alone.

Nope, no one interesting but there's a ton of opportunities in the area. I've been making an effort to leave the office midday for lunch and going to the dining room we share with the investment bank in our building. Something will shake as long as I keep heading out.
 
Just wanted to say I really enjoy the Sugar Baby Formula podcast with Taylor B. Jones. I'm in no shape or form interested in dating a sugar daddy or becoming a sugar baby, but the tips and the advice she gives can transcend to any woman looking to upgrade herself and improve her self-image.

It's really good to hear how to improve your self-confidence and self-esteem, and how it can help you get basically any guy you want.

One thing I like is there's a guy for everyone out there. It's all about being your best self and marketing yourself to the one that's best for you. If you don't like something about yourself, she encourages you to change it (albeit for a sugar daddy), but I say this can work for any situation.

Do you have link to the podcast? I found it:


Here is the link to her site:

https://thesugardaddyformula.com

Here is the comprehensive list of the podcasts from 2015:

http://podbay.fm/show/1031047856
 
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call him

busy men don't like a pushover dropping everything but
i look at it as his livelyhood is more important so you have to be flexible
plus you prolly bruised his lil ego. You might have to chase him a lil
then let him chase back.


One part of my lifestyle has been set in stone (yayyyyy!), Im going to be all in this thread.

Advice needed: I met a whale the other day. He insisted I take his number.. he’s reached out a few times and I wasn’t responsive (was working/busy), then he went on a business trip and hasn’t reached out since.
 
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I always hear that men prefer dresses but are jumpsuits ok ?
Are they still seen as feminine or are they too masculine ?
 
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the last time i wrote in here I was dating probably the wealthiest guy I'll ever date. I'm in my feelings today . He was attractive and rich rich. Rich like generational Hilton rich, and I f-ed it up. I wasn't strategic enough and let my emotions get the best of me. We didn't even do the do and he was claiming me as his gf and sending vid's declaring his commitment.
:cry3:I wish i could finesse him back. WHAT WAS WRONG WITH ME?!

Any who i just wanted to vent. le sigh
 
the last time i wrote in here I was dating probably the wealthiest guy I'll ever date. I'm in my feelings today . He was attractive and rich rich. Rich like generational Hilton rich, and I f-ed it up. I wasn't strategic enough and let my emotions get the best of me. We didn't even do the do and he was claiming me as his gf and sending vid's declaring his commitment.
:cry3:I wish i could finesse him back. WHAT WAS WRONG WITH ME?!

Any who i just wanted to vent. le sigh

That's okay...it's like hair. Once you learn how to grow it, come set-back or mess-up, you can repeat the process! So, you'll get another one. If you attracted him, you will attract others.
 
That's okay...it's like hair. Once you learn how to grow it, come set-back or mess-up, you can repeat the process! So, you'll get another one. If you attracted him, you will attract others.

you're right. I guess I've been in a dating lull and my frequency is off so I'm feeling sorry for myself. and i'm being greedy because of him:cry3:. I dated one guy from a billionaire family and now going back to entertaining six-figure dudes has me acting like I'm on the bread line :lachen:.

Fundraisers are my next method to infiltrate. Rich people love philanthropy.
 
Nope, no one interesting but there's a ton of opportunities in the area. I've been making an effort to leave the office midday for lunch and going to the dining room we share with the investment bank in our building. Something will shake as long as I keep heading out.

@missc, I'm wondering how this strategy is working for you. Got anything interesting to report?
 
Bumping because I live in New York now... :look:
Girl when did you leave? You better make friends with fabmom on ig she is the goat lol I think she changed her screen name recently due to a stalker. DM her. Plant yourself on the upper east side or is it the west heck try them both hang out where the money is. Look cute stay trim and tell yourself you attract good rich men looking for marriage daily.
 
Girl when did you leave? You better make friends with fabmom on ig she is the goat lol I think she changed her screen name recently due to a stalker. DM her. Plant yourself on the upper east side or is it the west heck try them both hang out where the money is. Look cute stay trim and tell yourself you attract good rich men looking for marriage daily.

I moved in August. Today I got my hair and eyebrows done. Nails are tomorrow or the upcoming week. Winter clothes shopping is underway. How do I find fabmom? Will she pop up if I look up the hashtag? Is she Black?

That bolded part is SOOOOO key.
 
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I thought I'd post this here, since a lot of ladies opt for the bar when venturing out alone to find their guy.
https://guestofaguest.com/new-york/...ello-bans-single-women-from-eating-at-the-bar

Upper East Side Restaurant Nello Bans Single Women From Eating At The Bar

Because, apparently, the owners consider all of us escorts, and they have "special" seating rules for them.

And yes, this is as disgustingly ridiculous as it sounds, so let's backtrack.

This week, in an essay titled "The Night I Was Mistaken for a Call Girl," jet-setting creative executive Clementine Crawford shared her dehumanizing (in more ways than one) experience at her favorite uptown eatery upon a recent trip to New York.

"I perched at my favourite seat at the bar and started to respond to all the emails that had arrived on the flight over," she explains. "A waiter approached – a familiar face, but oddly hesitant on this occasion. He advised – with evident embarrassment – that I was no longer permitted to eat at my usual spot and that I must now sit down at a table."

When she returned a few days later, she was told to move yet again. Then, from her new table, she watched as a fellow regular - a male one, that is - was served his meal without incident while perched on a stool at the bar. After rightfully speaking up, Crawford learned "that the owner had ordered a crackdown on hookers" and assumed management believed "upscale escorts working the bar lowered the tone of the place and would be less obvious if escorted behind a table."

She spoke to an owner, explained that she had been misidentified, and he responded "that he could run his business as he pleased, and that [she] was no longer welcome to eat at the bar, only at a table."

Real classy.

While she decidedly left the name of the establishment out of her piece, Crawford did confirm to Page Six that the restaurant in question was Nello, a Madison Avenue eatery frequented by the likes of Beyoncé and Sarah Jessica Parker, famous (or, shall we say, infamous) for springing a $275 white truffle pasta bill on their patrons.

Now, Nello should also be known as a place that discriminates against women - especially the empowered, out-on-her-own, pays-her-own-bill woman. The woman many men use as an example to "prove" that sexism isn't real, because, after all, there are now female CEOs in the world!!! Crawford put it best when she wrote, "All these years we have been battling for a room of one’s own; and, little did we know it, but we are still fighting for a seat at the table (or bar, to be strictly accurate)."

Of course, there are layers of shittiness to unpack here. It's not just the fact that at this so-called "sophisticated" establishment, all unaccompanied, attractive women are unquestionably considered sex workers, it's also the fact that there's a "sex worker seating policy" in the first place. Shouldn't a professional woman (in any field?) who can afford her meal be allowed to eat where she pleases?

The answer is yes - and it most definitely shouldn't be here.
 
I thought I'd post this here, since a lot of ladies opt for the bar when venturing out alone to find their guy.
https://guestofaguest.com/new-york/...ello-bans-single-women-from-eating-at-the-bar

Upper East Side Restaurant Nello Bans Single Women From Eating At The Bar

Because, apparently, the owners consider all of us escorts, and they have "special" seating rules for them.
When she returned a few days later, she was told to move yet again. Then, from her new table, she watched as a fellow regular - a male one, that is - was served his meal without incident while perched on a stool at the bar. After rightfully speaking up, Crawford learned "that the owner had ordered a crackdown on hookers" and assumed management believed "upscale escorts working the bar lowered the tone of the place and would be less obvious if escorted behind a table."
She spoke to an owner, explained that she had been misidentified, and he responded "that he could run his business as he pleased, and that [she] was no longer welcome to eat at the bar, only at a table."
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First off skip Nello :lachen: second off go in pairs :lachen:
He must have had a huge heaux problem. Maybe he got
in trouble with his wife...
 
First off skip Nello :lachen: second off go in pairs :lachen:
He must have had a huge heaux problem. Maybe he got
in trouble with his wife...
I agree on both points!:lol: It's not far from my place, so one day I stopped in alone and had brunch there. No lie - I had a pasta dish and some ice cream for dessert. The bill came to $90..for a plate of mediocre pasta and scallops/shrimp (?) and vanilla ice cream. That place is such a rip off. I was seated at a table, but funny enough after I ate the owner offered me a glass of champagne at the bar :look:. Oh the hypocrisy. This was years ago, though. At the time my SO did NOT like Nello . As a result we never went to his restaurant out in Long Island nor the one in Manhattan.

Based on the policy I would assume that he has a major heaux problem, but from what I've heard, he is the biggest heaux of them all.
 
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I agree on both points!:lol: It's not far from my place, so one day I stopped in alone and had brunch there. No lie - I had a pasta dish and some ice cream for dessert. The bill came to $90..for a plate of mediocre pasta and scallops/shrimp (?) and vanilla ice cream. That place is such a rip off. I was seated at a table, but funny enough after I ate the owner offered me a glass of champagne at the bar :look:. Oh the hypocrisy. This was years ago, though. At the time my SO did NOT like Nello . As a result we never went to his restaurant out in Long Island nor the one in Manhattan.

Based on the policy I would assume that he has a major heaux problem, but from what I've heard, he is the biggest heaux of them all.
Your post confirmed my suspicions he da heaux.
 
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