topsyturvy86
Well-Known Member
As a bit of background, I wear weaves atm and have done for about 6 years. I'm fully natural and started wearing weaves constantly as it was more manageable as I worked for years in the City and it just seemed more professional (rightly/ wrongly).
I leave out the front bit and straighten daily and it looks very much like my own hair so no one tends to know it's a weave, and I've just gone by not talking about it and letting people assume
So now I started dating this guy recently and on our 2nd date he told me that he loves my hair; I couldn't bring myself to tell him it was a weave >_< , it just seemed too early. He touched my hair often but it was okay as it wasn't the roots
Forward a little bit, we are now seeing each other and he keeps on touching my hair! I always stop him when he starts getting to the roots, but obviously need to address the topic, just not sure how to hence I haven't. I know I shouldn't be so shy about it, but I am (no judgment pls)
He's not black so not aware about weaves so there's no foundation there. + he's from a small town in Germany and hasn't interacted much I would imagine with black people so again no foundation there
Any advice on how best to approach it? and were you comfortable talking about weaves etc with your SO at the beginning of your relationship?
Thnx
I leave out the front bit and straighten daily and it looks very much like my own hair so no one tends to know it's a weave, and I've just gone by not talking about it and letting people assume
So now I started dating this guy recently and on our 2nd date he told me that he loves my hair; I couldn't bring myself to tell him it was a weave >_< , it just seemed too early. He touched my hair often but it was okay as it wasn't the roots
Forward a little bit, we are now seeing each other and he keeps on touching my hair! I always stop him when he starts getting to the roots, but obviously need to address the topic, just not sure how to hence I haven't. I know I shouldn't be so shy about it, but I am (no judgment pls)
He's not black so not aware about weaves so there's no foundation there. + he's from a small town in Germany and hasn't interacted much I would imagine with black people so again no foundation there
Any advice on how best to approach it? and were you comfortable talking about weaves etc with your SO at the beginning of your relationship?
Thnx