When I was a kid, my hair was healthy as long as my mom was doing it. She washed and pressed it every week to two weeks, then plaited it up with the cute barrettes and bows and such for school. In the summer, I'd often go natural (because of swimming and just being a kid) and she would keep it moisturized, greased, and in a double french braid. My hair never got past full SL, though but it was quite healthy, full, and pretty.
Then 8th grade hit and I got a box perm and mom retired from doing mine and my sister's hair. Hers flourished & grew but I had problems ever since. My hair fluctuated around a chewed up EL/NL from age 14 to 19. My hair only approached SL after being in braids and after the braids were taken out it was back to NL because of breakage. From 19- 29 I just got into going to the beauty shop & getting it cut into cute styles (the Halle Berry, asymmetrical Rhianna bob~ whatever floated my boat at the time). Now, I'm turnin' dirty thirty in 2 months and on the GROW for the first time in my life!