I agree with Kitchentician
Im from a small town with not many black ppl so I used to think shoulder length hair was long and never even saw any black women with longer hair than that unless they were mixed. Ive seen a few here in FL but mostly Ive seen them on this board, which is inspiration for me!
Just attaining shoulder length hair has been a milestone for me.
Armpit will be LONG for me....then *crossing fingers* hopefully brastrap will be like I hit the lottery....