I've been talking to this guy, things are going pretty well. We work different schedules so we haven't been able to get together much, but he does call me alot throughout the week. Okay, usually I think its a good sign that a guy really wants to talk and get into my head, but okay here's the deal- he wants to talk on the phone all day every day.
He has the kind of job where he can talk on the phone while he is working. I work in an office and I do not hold personal conversations while I'm at work. I work 10 hour days so when I get home, there is very little time for me do unwind and just a have some time for myself. He calls on my lunch break and then he calls when I get home. Sometimes I just don't feel like talking period when I get home.
Today is my day off of work. I called earlier and spoke with him for almost a whole hour. I called back a little later and we talked for another half an hour, then I wanted to get off the phone so I could watch a little TV. I can't watch TV while I'm on the phone with him, because he expects my full attention. He was upset that I wanted to get off the phone with him.
He expects me to stay on the phone 3-4 hours a day keeping him company while he is at work. But on days when both of us are off of work, he doesn't make much of an effort to meet me in person. I'd rather spend time in person rather than talking on the phone for hours on end.
Am I crazy for feeling this way?
He has the kind of job where he can talk on the phone while he is working. I work in an office and I do not hold personal conversations while I'm at work. I work 10 hour days so when I get home, there is very little time for me do unwind and just a have some time for myself. He calls on my lunch break and then he calls when I get home. Sometimes I just don't feel like talking period when I get home.
Today is my day off of work. I called earlier and spoke with him for almost a whole hour. I called back a little later and we talked for another half an hour, then I wanted to get off the phone so I could watch a little TV. I can't watch TV while I'm on the phone with him, because he expects my full attention. He was upset that I wanted to get off the phone with him.
He expects me to stay on the phone 3-4 hours a day keeping him company while he is at work. But on days when both of us are off of work, he doesn't make much of an effort to meet me in person. I'd rather spend time in person rather than talking on the phone for hours on end.
Am I crazy for feeling this way?