eyunka
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I didn't proof read ladies so bare with me
Ladies I need your advice on how to tell my husband his weight is affecting our sex life. Let me give you a little history on him, he is the type of peson that does not care what anyone thinks of him.
Anyway a couple months ago i started hinting he needed to started shedding some pounds for health reasons. Black male in thier 30's, that's when they are suppose to get stuff checked out. I thought if I took the health route he may do something about it. If I said I didn't like it he would be like "and".
Well we got in an arguement about two weeks ago which lead to another arguement about his weight. He said he didn't like me making comments about it. so i stopped.
Fast forward to today, tonight, 20 mins ago. I'm pretty pissed ladies. When i say his weight is an issue that't what i mean he is too heavy for me. Trying not to get too graphic keeping it "PG" There is only one position I'm able to reach my orgaism well becus hubby has put on some lbs that position allows certain body parts to go numb. This is not the first time this has happened (many times) I have tried to block out the pain. I'm laying there feeling pain and pleasure and that just does not work for me so i'm let here at the computer wide awake, frustrated, still horny while he is asleep snoring. I just want to throw some hot water on him.
LADIES LETS KEEP IT "PG" I REALLY WOULD LIKE SOME ADVICE ON HOW TO ADRESS HIM. THIS CAN BECOME A REAL PROMBLEM IF MOMMA DON'T GET SATISFIED!!!!!
Update: He has gotten sick (kidney infection) and I tried to get him to go to the doctor because this is not something you want to mess with. Well after nagging and nagging he went but told them he thought it was a strained muscle. (he didn't believe me that i was a kidney infection) Well here it is 4 days later and he is not feeling any better so now he thinks i'm right. But he still won't go....so at this point i'm pissed because he is not taking care of himself.
Last night we had a heart to heart talk...he aske me if i thought he was going some where (die) and I said honestly you are not taking care of your self..(went into the whole black males, age, high blood pressure, colon...etc), talk about the weight and how it's affecting me. From the look on his face it looked like he began to understand me so we will see what happens from here.
Ladies I need your advice on how to tell my husband his weight is affecting our sex life. Let me give you a little history on him, he is the type of peson that does not care what anyone thinks of him.
Anyway a couple months ago i started hinting he needed to started shedding some pounds for health reasons. Black male in thier 30's, that's when they are suppose to get stuff checked out. I thought if I took the health route he may do something about it. If I said I didn't like it he would be like "and".
Well we got in an arguement about two weeks ago which lead to another arguement about his weight. He said he didn't like me making comments about it. so i stopped.
Fast forward to today, tonight, 20 mins ago. I'm pretty pissed ladies. When i say his weight is an issue that't what i mean he is too heavy for me. Trying not to get too graphic keeping it "PG" There is only one position I'm able to reach my orgaism well becus hubby has put on some lbs that position allows certain body parts to go numb. This is not the first time this has happened (many times) I have tried to block out the pain. I'm laying there feeling pain and pleasure and that just does not work for me so i'm let here at the computer wide awake, frustrated, still horny while he is asleep snoring. I just want to throw some hot water on him.
LADIES LETS KEEP IT "PG" I REALLY WOULD LIKE SOME ADVICE ON HOW TO ADRESS HIM. THIS CAN BECOME A REAL PROMBLEM IF MOMMA DON'T GET SATISFIED!!!!!
Update: He has gotten sick (kidney infection) and I tried to get him to go to the doctor because this is not something you want to mess with. Well after nagging and nagging he went but told them he thought it was a strained muscle. (he didn't believe me that i was a kidney infection) Well here it is 4 days later and he is not feeling any better so now he thinks i'm right. But he still won't go....so at this point i'm pissed because he is not taking care of himself.
Last night we had a heart to heart talk...he aske me if i thought he was going some where (die) and I said honestly you are not taking care of your self..(went into the whole black males, age, high blood pressure, colon...etc), talk about the weight and how it's affecting me. From the look on his face it looked like he began to understand me so we will see what happens from here.
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