Wow...wish I had
THIS problem!
Forget about making a "guy friend"....I don't need anymore of
those. What do I need another guy friend for?
What I need is a BOYfriend!
Seems that's harder to come by for me....
Anyway OP....I don't know how old you are, but a lot of times when men and women reach a "certain age", it is almost near impossible to make a truly platonic male friend unless there is SOME reason why the two of you haven't had an interest in the past (ie. you guys are like "siblings", he's taken, he's married, etc) and even THEN that doesn't automatically rule out the fact that some men will still want to keep a woman on the "side".
It's just hard when you get older to have a truly
PLATONIC male friend because usually somewhere down the line, romantic feelings on either end will get in the way.
Have you seen the movie "When Harry Met Sally"?? lol!
Anyway, if you're just really needing to find advice on how to make a guy friend, here are some things that have worked for many women (including myself). For one thing, you have to realize that men can't be strictly "just friends" w/a woman that they find attractive OR are attracted to. They just can't do it! Somewhere in the back of their heads they will always be wondering....
So...with that said.......
First off:
-Make yourself as LEAST attractive to the opposite sex as possible when you're around him. In other words, no "cute tops" and fitted jeans.
Wear sweats, baggy clothes, or just real "chill" outfits. Don't wear any makeup, perfume, etc.
-Act real tomboyish and BUTCH around him. There's nothing more that will repel a man away from thinking about you romantically than a butch woman lol.
-Talk mainly about guy-oriented things. Don't talk about relationships, feelings, or anything that you would talk to your girl friends about.
Bottom Line though OP: You can do all of that stuff listed above, and
even THEN it won't gaurantee you 100% that some guy won't still end up having feelings for you (hey...some men actually LIKE tomboyish women who wear no makeup and dress in baggy sweats!
).
Personally, I think it's pretty much a lose-lose situation.
It's harder to make strictly platonic male friends unless maybe you grew up with them all of your life lol.
May I ask...what is your goal in making male friends?