How Do I Reclaim My Power As A Woman?

[biznesswmn]

Makes perfect sense. Theyre always all over us when we DGAF or at least act like we dont --> detached

 

[SurferBabe]

I woke up to see that this fool texted me at 2 this morning! It was a "what are you up to?" drunk text. Ignore. I'm starting to think he is a narcissist. He's trying to creep back in because he can't deal with the fact that I don't reach out or chase like every other woman he played. I also don't hang around or kiss his butt like his harem. I just learned about this concept of a narcissist's harem and this describes his relationship with all of his female friends. I'm sure he still has a gf and I feel sorry for her but I'm staying out of all of that. It is all so messy.

I can't believe I used to cry over this fool! I could have been the one in his girlfriend's shoes! What a joke!

http://queenbeeing.com/part-narcissists-harem-might-shocked/
http://esteemology.com/the-narcissist-and-his-harem-why-you-should-decline-membership/
http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/nar...o-stop-envying-the-ex-and-various-hanger-ons/

 

[ChasingBliss]

I woke up to see that this fool texted me at 2 this morning! It was a "what are you up to?" drunk text. Ignore. I'm starting to think he is a narcissist. He's trying to creep back in because he can't deal with the fact that I don't reach out or chase like every other woman he played. I also don't hang around or kiss his butt like his harem. I just learned about this concept of a narcissist's harem and this describes his relationship with all of his female friends. I'm sure he still has a gf and I feel sorry for her but I'm staying out of all of that. It is all so messy.

I can't believe I used to cry over this fool! I could have been the one in his girlfriend's shoes! What a joke!

http://queenbeeing.com/part-narcissists-harem-might-shocked/
http://esteemology.com/the-narcissist-and-his-harem-why-you-should-decline-membership/
http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/nar...o-stop-envying-the-ex-and-various-hanger-ons/

LOL ...Good for you. Stand your ground.
Good info. I'm very much a fan of Queenbeing and Nat Lue.

 

[biznesswmn]

Two men talk about the pain of a man's obsession with women-- how a man is forced to choose between a goddess-like woman who will make him her slave, or a good girl who will happily serve him but who he will come to resent. He resents her because once a woman allows a man to have power over her, he cannot control himself and he goes too far. Masculine energy is destructive by nature, thus men cannot be allowed to rule with absolute power over anything, especially women..

This is deep. Puts a lot in perspective for me, the resentment part
Ive had situations where i couldn't understand why a man would treat me bad when i was just trying to love him. In his mind he's like, 'why are u letting me wil' out? Dont u know i cant help myself?'
I never felt that they had power over me. I also never believed that they (men) cant control themselves but i guess they really cant How are we then supposed to submit to them and let them lead?
Dont want to derail the thread, PM me if u hav answers.

 

[hopeful]

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How are we then supposed to submit to them and let them lead?
Dont want to derail the thread, PM me if u hav answers.

You can't. Choosing to let someone lead in certain areas is one thing. IMO submitting to another human being is dangerous.

Submit: accept or yield to a superior force or to the authority or will of another person.

No thank you.

 

[movingforward13]

This is deep. Puts a lot in perspective for me, the resentment part
Ive had situations where i couldn't understand why a man would treat me bad when i was just trying to love him. In his mind he's like, 'why are u letting me wil' out? Dont u know i cant help myself?'
I never felt that they had power over me. I also never believed that they (men) cant control themselves but i guess they really cant How are we then supposed to submit to them and let them lead?
Dont want to derail the thread, PM me if u hav answers.

You don't.

Something I am really working on is giving the man the impression that I have submitted to him and that he is leading but really I have injected my thoughts, wants and ways into his mind. That way when he makes a decision, it is one I wanted and I can be like "Oh baby yes - that is exactly what I was thinking. You are so smart."

 

[Evolving78]

^^^^^^^^
'Accept the apology you never received' is taking me places right now I tell ya !!!!!!!!!! Wow

That was deep right there! Ha!