How do I know if there is a chance for us?

[longinghair]

I have known this guy for years, from school, and I know he is a good man. We started working together recently as interns and spent a lot of time together, and I started to really like him. I know he is single. The thing is he hasn't said anything to me except occasional text messages asking about me or just showing up at work when he knows I am on duty but it has been 6 months now. I have little experience with men and don't know how to let him know how I feel . I realise the most likely explanation is that he is just not that into me but I am willing to risk it.

 

[cmw45]

I think there wasn't a great response because you didn't provide a lot of information. You knew him from high school? College? Is he single? Recently out of a relationship? How did you meet? Ect...the ladies on LHCF like to help out but we need more info.

 

[likewtr4chklit]

longinghair
1. Do u speak to each other outside the work place?
2. Have you ever done anything like gone to lunch together?

 

[frizzy]

Can you take the "joking" way. You know, jokingly ask him when is going to ask you out on a date and see how he responds. Or you can let him know in general, in a regular conversation that you are interested in finding a rlp., or ask him if he can suggest a good singles website or something.

But I am a firm believer that if a guy is interested, he will let you know.

 

[caltron]

If you want to know for certain, you are going to have to bite the bullet and ask him out on a date. If he acts interested then he will take it from there without you having to do anything more.

If he makes up an excuse and/or you have to do all the planning and pursuing, then he's just not into you.