It can be hard finding the right church community, especially if you've had negative experiences and horrible examples from some.
However Christ established His Church for a reason, and if you're a Christian, it's your duty to not only be a member of the Church mystically, but VISIBLY.
The Church is both a visible and mystical institution, and is made up of the saints in Heaven and on earth.
Jesus says, "I also say to you that you are Peter, and upon this rock I will build My church; and the gates of Hades will not overpower it." (Matthew 16:18)
What is the purpose of the Church which Our Lord founded?
The Church is God's chosen instrument of salvation on earth
Through preaching the Gospel and baptizing people into the Church, we fulfill Christ's command: "Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit," (Matthew 28:19)
We faithfully keep, teach, preach, and defend the authentic teachings of Christ and the Apostles, thus correcting the moral and spiritual error of the world.
“I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." (John 14:6)
"You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt has become tasteless, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled under foot by men." (Matthew 5:13)
"So then, brothers, stand firm and hold to the traditions that you were taught by us, either by our spoken word or by our letter." (2 Thess. 2:15)
God communicates spiritual graces and strength to us through His Church, especially through the Sacraments
And as they were eating, he took bread, and after blessing it broke it and gave it to them, and said, “Take; this is my body.” And he took a cup, and when he had given thanks he gave it to them, and they all drank of it. And he said to them, “This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many. Truly, I say to you, I will not drink again of the fruit of the vine until that day when I drink it new in the kingdom of God.” (Mark 14:22-25)
We are to celebrate the Lord's Supper (aka Communion, aka Eucharist) in Church, with fellow believers, according to Christ's command.
"All the believers devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching, and to fellowship, and to sharing in meals (including the Lord's Supper), and to prayer." (Acts 2:42)
"For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. For as in one body we have many members,e and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith; if service, in our serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching; the one who exhorts, in his exhortation; the one who contributes, in generosity; the one who leads, with zeal; the one who does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness." (Romans 12:3-8)
It is good that you do not want to take part in a particular community's immorality, drama, or foolishness. However by swearing off church altogether, you are cutting yourself off from the Body of Christ, closing yourself off from the friendship, grace, consolation, and help that comes with being part of the Church.
You don't have to duke it out with the Enemy alone. Christ knew what He was doing when He gave us a Church
); as there are many false Churches which have been raised up by satan to mislead and misguide people outside of Scripture. There's a heavy spirit in these churches which speak of love, yet eliminate repentance of ALL sins. 
You're going to be okay and free to follow Jesus.
I am a major piece of work for Him... I thank Him for His mercy each and every day. I can't live without God's Grace. 
