ckisland
Lucia
LaVgirl
marta9227
MileHighDiva
Thanks so much ladies! All this attention has me blushing and hiding behind a curtain...I ain't used to this!!
Y'all had me like "whoa" when I saw all these mentions today. I am very happy and I can't wait until we are all hangin' and swangin' at HL-TBL. It really means a lot...I never thought I would have hair this long until in the last year I began to change my thinking and expect it as
NJoy often encourages us to do. It's a small feat, growing hair, but it has inspired me to reach for higher goals in other areas of my life.
Lucia YASS HONEY you will see me there!
mayoo Your hair is sooo pretty, lush, thick and just plain ol delicious. I lurv me some thick, voluminous hair! I have that Diana Ross syndrome bad...
MileHighDiva Ya know, I have considered writing a book, or at least a blog, and I'm still entertaining that thought. I think the blog is more my speed right now, then maybe it will transition into enough material for a book of sorts. Maybe I should start compiling my info and stuff...
I have thought of doing YT vids too, but right now I have too much going on. Maybe I will do one at my next length check in October and make a YT channel for all things hair, makeup, and beauty. Gotta get a new laptop first though. For some reason, my iPad makes my skin look orangey...
ckisland I have a similar goal...NO HAIR CUTTING UNTIL 2020 or 2025. That means no large trims or chops, just an S&D once or twice a year, MAYBE a slight 1/8-1/4" dusting if I have too much dryness on the ends as they age. I had the perfect blunt ends syndrome for years and that is why I never grew past MBL, always cutting. But as I looked at other persuasions, "natural," fairy tale, or ends that taper gradually due to not being cut have grown on me. Through much research, experimentation with my own hair, and visual observation, ends that are not blunt CAN be healthy and lush.
Some people have fragile ends or hair and must regularly trim, but personally, I figure there is no need for me to continually cut my hair if there is no damage present; it's going to grow how it wants regardless (in a "V" shape) or unevenly, and so I would just be cutting off healthy hair by maintaining a trim schedule during the active growing period (when you're trying to get to a new length and not just maintain where you are). It took me YEARS to wake up and realize I was cutting unnecessarily. But better late than never!!
My hair has not been trimmed in 13 months and when I did have a trim in June 2012 after my virgin relaxer (went from all natural, not heat-trained to texlaxed/mildly relaxed), it was only 1/2" to remove residual SSK's. I have S&D'd on two days since then: in Nov and March. I found 6 more knots in that time and only one single split. I figure that's pretty good for relaxed hair and I will keep protecting my ends religiously and k.i.m. You can do it too, if you like, and if your hair responds positively.
I really have a goal of terminal time, or as long as my hair will possibly grow...I don't really think it should be called "terminal length." I refuse to believe my hair can only grow to classic length or whatever length and that after that point it will either stop growing completely or fall out.
all hairs on the head and body are in different and varying growth phases. One layer of your hair may enter resting period and another will start growing again. That's why I can't wrap my brain around this "terminal length" terminology. It is more accurately termed, "terminal time" since hairs grow for so long and then rest or shed.
Just my scientific and analytical 2 cents about it.
ETA: I decided I would not cut until at least 2020 a few months ago out of curiosity to see how long my hair will get in 7 years being uncut. It makes me feel good inside too...my grandma always told me to never cut my hair. Who knows how long it would be had I listened...hers is TBL, a flowing rainfall of silver 2a/2b strands, and she is 70. She uses regular commercial products and has psoriasis, but we are the only 2 in the family on both sides with hair this long. I hope my mom and sisters will grow theirs out. I LOVE to see my sisters with long hair. With our beautiful skin tones and myriad of lush textures, it is striking to see long hair on a Black woman. To me it is, anyway.