Glib Gurl
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Here is an excerpt from Hill Harper's The Conversation where he talks about how "The Rules" can hinder relationships:
If something doesn't feel right to you, or if you don't feel like a man is treating you resepctfully, then by all means kick him to the curb. But before you do, make sure you're not relying on someone else's interpretation of his actions. Trust your own rules of self-respect and decent behavior.
Part of the wonder and possibility of a first date is that we get to write our own rules . . . . We get to write our own book on how to be together.
Notwithstanding this , what do you think of what he says above? It sounds like good advice to me....
If something doesn't feel right to you, or if you don't feel like a man is treating you resepctfully, then by all means kick him to the curb. But before you do, make sure you're not relying on someone else's interpretation of his actions. Trust your own rules of self-respect and decent behavior.
Part of the wonder and possibility of a first date is that we get to write our own rules . . . . We get to write our own book on how to be together.
Notwithstanding this , what do you think of what he says above? It sounds like good advice to me....