cherryhair123
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Does your man help with your bills even though you two don't live together? I always felt like this should be the case. I feel offended if he doesn't offer after things get serious. Is that old school thinking?
*CherryPie* Aren't allowances great? The man I was going to marry in 2011, sent me an allowance check ever two weeks. It wasn't much, but it was nice. Also we were in a LDR and when he would visit about every 6 weeks, he purchased all my groceries in addition to my allowance. Le Sigh.Yes. I got a percentage of my ex's check every payday because we didn't live together. His extremely jealous personality caused me to to break up with him. But I miss the checks.
No, I don't think a man should have too especially if they are paying for all the dates and are generous with gifts. I would want my son to date a woman that was stable enough to pay her own bills.
His choosing to pay doesn't mean she can't pay.
A man can choose to pay but one should not expect it. It seems odd to expect a man to pay your bills, especially if you are fully able to pay your own bills.
spelmanlocks said:A man can choose to pay but one should not expect it. It seems odd to expect a man to pay your bills, especially if you are fully able to pay your own bills.
Everyone has different expectations, wants and needs. Some new skool folks would say men shouldn't have to pay for dates etc and the bill/tab should be split equally. Again its all on the person or persons involved in the relationship. What one man/woman won't do another man/woman will. Someone paying a few or all my bills doesn't mean I cannot pay my own. Again different strokes for different folks. I keep bringing up the 5 Love Languages mannnnnnA man can choose to pay but one should not expect it. It seems odd to expect a man to pay your bills, especially if you are fully able to pay your own bills.
Does your man help with your bills even though you two don't live together? I always felt like this should be the case. I feel offended if he doesn't offer after things get serious. Is that old school thinking?
Romance with no finance is a nuisance....................