Well I was wondering what can I use or do to soften my new growth until next touch up. It's really thick and I was doing good until last wash. I have about a inch of new growth or maybe a little more. Well I need something to soften it because it's a fight whenever I try to style it. Just putting it in a ponytail takes me about a half and hour to and hour. I kno it's better to comb when wet then dry, so I do that but even then it's like trying to comb a brillo pad. I don't kno HOW it got this bad. Does anybody have any suggestions. If it helps my hair is really dense, thick, and coarse. It's extremely resistant, and even makes relaxing hard.