thatscuteright
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So he says that I stood him up. I met a guy from one of the dating sites, about 2 weeks ago. We had a little meet and greet at Panera, and it went fine. We talked here and there and texted here and there. He was a bit sporadic with the communication, and I called him out on it. He laughed and said he will do better.
Last Tuesday he asked me out for dinner for Saturday at 7pm, at a restaurant close to me. He lives about 35 minutes away and purposely chose that restaurant to make it easier for me. I said, sure, no problem, if weather permits we can meet up for dinner. We agreed that it was "tentative " on the weather. After that I never heard back from him all week. Saturday rolls around,the weather is fine, and still no word from him. At 6:30 I decide to wait to hear from him first, to see if he will communicate something. At 7:00 ( the time we are supposed to meet) I bite the bullet and text him first something along these lines " hey I have not heard from you, I am not sure if we are still meeting or not,let me know". No response.
At 7:30, I get a text from him " I am here". At that point I was comfy on the couch and the idea of getting ready and meeting him didn't seem that appealing anymore. He called me at 7:45 and 7:46. He left voicemails, but I didn't bother checking them. At 7:50,I just decided not to be bothered and sent him a text that since I did not hear from him all week or even all day, and I did not know what was going on, I dont think I will be able to make it.
Fastforward to last night, I get a text from him, saying that he felt that I stood him up, however he can uderstand that when something is "tentative" it needs confirmation. Lesson learned. And asked how I was doing. I didnt bother to respond. He is too old, to be acting like this. ( he is 41)
Last Tuesday he asked me out for dinner for Saturday at 7pm, at a restaurant close to me. He lives about 35 minutes away and purposely chose that restaurant to make it easier for me. I said, sure, no problem, if weather permits we can meet up for dinner. We agreed that it was "tentative " on the weather. After that I never heard back from him all week. Saturday rolls around,the weather is fine, and still no word from him. At 6:30 I decide to wait to hear from him first, to see if he will communicate something. At 7:00 ( the time we are supposed to meet) I bite the bullet and text him first something along these lines " hey I have not heard from you, I am not sure if we are still meeting or not,let me know". No response.
At 7:30, I get a text from him " I am here". At that point I was comfy on the couch and the idea of getting ready and meeting him didn't seem that appealing anymore. He called me at 7:45 and 7:46. He left voicemails, but I didn't bother checking them. At 7:50,I just decided not to be bothered and sent him a text that since I did not hear from him all week or even all day, and I did not know what was going on, I dont think I will be able to make it.
Fastforward to last night, I get a text from him, saying that he felt that I stood him up, however he can uderstand that when something is "tentative" it needs confirmation. Lesson learned. And asked how I was doing. I didnt bother to respond. He is too old, to be acting like this. ( he is 41)
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