Whimsy
Well-Known Member
...but then he turned and walked away. (apparrently he walked out of the apartment to 'cool off')
What advice would you give your friend who called you in tears to tell you about an argument with her SO that ended this way?
Background:
I told her, this worries me and I think that he may have stopped himself this time, but you never know what the next argument may bring. Get the hell outta that sitch.
She told me her mother said he obviously knows how to control himself or he would've hit her so they should work on communicating better with each other and work through this after he cools down.
WTF?!
LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU GUYS THINK.
What advice would you give your friend who called you in tears to tell you about an argument with her SO that ended this way?
Background:
- NO! this is not about me! (thank god)
- They've been dating almost a year.
- They're in love and she said he had asked her to move in with him but she said no cuz she's locked into her lease for a while.
- SHE is 27, HE is 37
- both black, working, stable and "normal"
- SHE has been in (what i consider) an abusive (mentally/emotionally - not physically) relationship in the past.
- I don't know much about his history.
I told her, this worries me and I think that he may have stopped himself this time, but you never know what the next argument may bring. Get the hell outta that sitch.
She told me her mother said he obviously knows how to control himself or he would've hit her so they should work on communicating better with each other and work through this after he cools down.
WTF?!
LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU GUYS THINK.