He Asked Her To Pee On Him.

[dancinstallion]

Is this what is going on in the streets? What kind of R. Kelly nasty/messy request is this?

My friend's lover asked her to pee on him.


Is this what men are wanting and expecting?

 

[dancinstallion]

I think the guy watches too much porn. I think he is mixing fantasy with reality. Because I hope people are not out here peeing while coloring.
Dis Tew Much.

 

[Crackers Phinn]

I find all the booty play that the kids are doing far more gross than a dude wanting to be peed on. I can’t believe pee has become a lesser sexual evil.

 

[Theresamonet]

I find all the booty play that the kids are doing far more gross than a dude wanting to be peed on. I can’t believe pee has become a lesser sexual evil.

What kinda booty play?

I don’t have a problem with the pee, really. I just don’t understand what they do about the pee soaked bed. Do they keep a rubber sheet? When it’s time to get down, one goes, “Hey baby, why don’t you go grab the rubber sheet ”.

 

[lesedi]

I just don't understand the sexual gratification of it I guess. I'm not peeing on anyone and I'm calling the police if someone pees on me.

 

[Black Ambrosia]

I just don't understand the sexual gratification of it I guess. I'm not peeing on anyone and I'm calling the police if someone pees on me.

That’s a 911 call I wanna hear.

 

[livinbestlyfe]

Yeah, I’ll pee on you. In yo house, on yo bed, on yo sheets. And no... I will not be lying on your urine soaked sheets once I’m done. Just pass me some toilet paper, ‘cuz I’m out.

 

[Black Ambrosia]

What kinda booty play?

I don’t have a problem with the pee, really. I just don’t understand what they do about the pee soaked bed. Do they keep a rubber sheet? When it’s time to get down, one goes, “Hey baby, why don’t you go grab the rubber sheet ”.

This reminds me of that scene from BMJ where she’s talking about putting a finger in her man’s butt and then being grossed out about her finger and needing to wash it before continuing. At least I think that’s what happened.

 

[Black Ambrosia]

Is this what is going on in the streets? What kind of R. Kelly nasty/messy request is this?

My friend's lover asked her to pee on him.


Is this what men are wanting and expecting?

How does this even come up in conversation? Was this request made during the act? We’re they watching porn and he asked her if she’d consider it? Were they just talking about their fantasies and he put it out there?

Maybe this is a negotiating ploy where you ask for something outlandish (golden shower) and then try to settle for what you really want (eating groceries, threesome, etc) because it’s more reasonable in comparison? Ionno if those are more reasonable but you get what I mean.

Or maybe he’s just into weird stuff. I don’t understand the sexual gratification either and thinking about the logistics is making my head hurt.

 

[dancinstallion]

How does this even come up in conversation? Was this request made during the act? We’re they watching porn and he asked her if she’d consider it? Were they just talking about their fantasies and he put it out there?

Maybe this is a negotiating ploy where you ask for something outlandish (golden shower) and then try to settle for what you really want (eating groceries, threesome, etc) because it’s more reasonable in comparison? Ionno if those are more reasonable but you get what I mean.

Or maybe he’s just into weird stuff. I don’t understand the sexual gratification either and thinking about the logistics is making my head hurt.

It was made during the act. I asked the same thing like how does this come about. He asked and she thought he was playing, then he asked again a few weeks later. So she knew he was serious.

 

[Crackers Phinn]

What kinda booty play?

I don’t have a problem with the pee, really. I just don’t understand what they do about the pee soaked bed. Do they keep a rubber sheet? When it’s time to get down, one goes, “Hey baby, why don’t you go grab the rubber sheet ”.

Eating groceries, tossing salads and whatnot. Millennials are human staph infections.

 

[Evolving78]

Golden showers.. yeah I’m not into that. Some folks get peeing confused with squirting as well.

People just can’t be satisfied with regular sex. Why do people need more than that? Sex should be about connection. How can somebody connect with someone doing the most? Why are people that engage in sex so unsatisfied?

 

[meka72]

Yeah, I’ll pee on you. In yo house, on yo bed, on yo sheets. And no... I will not be lying on your urine soaked sheets once I’m done. Just pass me some toilet paper, ‘cuz I’m out.

 

[Black Ambrosia]

Golden showers.. yeah I’m not into that. Some folks get peeing confused with squirting as well.

People just can’t be satisfied with regular sex. Why do people need more than that? Sex should be about connection. How can somebody connect with someone doing the most? Why are people that engage in sex so unsatisfied?

That's a great question.

 

[intellectualuva]

Meh. There are worse kinks. Lol. Its not my thing but it can get worse. I've heard about worse on Twitter. *barf*

It's a matter of accept or reject. The guy I met after my ex told me he wanted me pee on him. That was our last phonecall....mostly because he's cheap based on some other things he shared in that conversation and of course way too forward in sharing his kink. It made me wonder if that was primer for something else coming and I didn't want to find out....especially since he was a 50/50 guy.

 

[Ms. Tarabotti]

Golden showers.. yeah I’m not into that. Some folks get peeing confused with squirting as well.

People just can’t be satisfied with regular sex. Why do people need more than that? Sex should be about connection. How can somebody connect with someone doing the most? Why are people that engage in sex so unsatisfied?

It adds some 'spice' to the act?

It might be the same reason that people liked to be whipped, tied up, use objects and engage in other 'activities'. Your 'normal sex' might be to bland for them.

My question is how do you discover that you like golden showers?

 

[intellectualuva]

It adds some 'spice' to the act?

It might be the same reason that people liked to be whipped, tied up, use objects and engage in other 'activities'. Your 'normal sex' might be to bland for them.

My question is how do you discover that you like golden showers?

It has to be porn. Some men like to see beautiful women do "gross things"...then decide they want gross things done to them or them.

 

[meka72]

My question is how do you discover that you like golden showers?

My friend and her ex husband tried it when they were taking a bath together. I can’t remember who peed on whom but it wasn’t in the middle of foreplay or anything. It was just random—“would you wash my back after you pee on me” IIRC.

 

[Black Ambrosia]

I keep thinking of things I want to say but I don't want to join the band.

 

[Evolving78]

It adds some 'spice' to the act?

It might be the same reason that people liked to be whipped, tied up, use objects and engage in other 'activities'. Your 'normal sex' might be to bland for them.

My question is how do you discover that you like golden showers?

While the need to spice it up? Like what is the psychology behind that? How does sex get boring? Is it the person, or the act itself? Are the people not into each other anymore? Had the chemistry fizzled out?

And the same thing could be asked about why would someone what a penis or a fist in their behind? Lol
Like urinating on someone isn’t sex. Whipping someone isn’t sex. Just because someone gets sexual gratification out of it or may have an orgasm, doesn’t qualify as sex. That’s something else. Something dark.

 

[Crackers Phinn]

IMO most fetishes are born from some childhood experience that may not necessarily have been trauma related. When I say fetish, I mean something perceived by most as nonsexual that a person needs to be incorporated in sex for them to feel the act is complete. Whenever I hear of men wanting to pee on women, I always think of little baby boys who laugh when they hit somebody with a surprise spray during a diaper change or bath. I think there's something about the feeling of relief combined with laughter that men later try to recreate in a sexual situation.

Kinda the same way I think women who want to be choked and abused are trying to recreate an experience that they have control over.

 

[Black Ambrosia]

IMO most fetishes are born from some childhood experience that may not necessarily have been trauma related. When I say fetish, I mean something perceived by most as nonsexual that a person needs to be incorporated in sex for them to feel the act is complete. Whenever I hear of men wanting to pee on women, I always think of little baby boys who laugh when they hit somebody with a surprise spray during a diaper change or bath. I think there's something about the feeling of relief combined with laughter that men later try to recreate in a sexual situation.

Kinda the same way I think women who want to be choked and abused are trying to recreate an experience that they have control over.

I think there are levels to everything too. No part of me wants to be choked or abused but when I hear women say they like to be spanked or tied up I tend to think its harmless. But maybe it isn't?

 

[sarumoki]

Is this what is going on in the streets? What kind of R. Kelly nasty/messy request is this?

My friend's lover asked her to pee on him.


Is this what men are wanting and expecting?

The President of the United States is into it, allegedly. That's what's supposed to be on that tape.

 

[MissNina]

I think there are levels to everything too. No part of me wants to be choked or abused but when I hear women say they like to be spanked or tied up I tend to think its harmless. But maybe it isn't?

Nah, that’s harmless unless he accidentally chokes you too hard and you really can’t breathe

I think I’d lose all attraction if bae asked me to pee on him or vice versa. Pee is gross unless you drink a whole lot of water and it’s water pee

 

[Black Ambrosia]

Nah, that’s harmless unless he accidentally chokes you too hard and you really can’t breathe

I think I’d lose all attraction if bae asked me to pee on him or vice versa. Pee is gross unless you drink a whole lot of water and it’s water pee

See I just don't associate anything sexual with choking. I feel like its the start of a SVU episode.

And all pee is bad pee. Even water pee.

 

[RoundEyedGirl504]

It is what your friend's man is wanting. I haven't had that request. But everybody has their kinks. My grandma told me about having the salad tossed when i was too young to even fathom what that meant, so I don't think anything is new more well known and talked about though for sure.

 

[Crackers Phinn]

I think there are levels to everything too. No part of me wants to be choked or abused but when I hear women say they like to be spanked or tied up I tend to think its harmless. But maybe it isn't?

I think that what two or more emotionally stable consenting adults do is harmless. The problems occur when the inmates start taking over the asylum. I think that a lot of the craziness that I read black women being into is about being more freaky than the next chick which is a kind of fetish in of itself.

 

[oneastrocurlie]

Purposely having human waste put on you for enjoyment is a bit off.

 

[Ms. Tarabotti]

While the need to spice it up? Like what is the psychology behind that? How does sex get boring? Is it the person, or the act itself? Are the people not into each other anymore? Had the chemistry fizzled out?

And the same thing could be asked about why would someone what a penis or a fist in their behind? Lol
Like urinating on someone isn’t sex. Whipping someone isn’t sex. Just because someone gets sexual gratification out of it or may have an orgasm, doesn’t qualify as sex. That’s something else. Something dark.

But that is what sex is about for you. Some people incorporate all sorts of 'behaviors and practices' into their sex lives. It may seem weird to you but that's how they roll. People are into all sorts of things and as CrackersPhinn said, what two consenting adults do in their relationship (within reason) is harmless for them. You might never try some of the things that they do but that doesn't mean that they don't like each other or are not into each other. A couple who only has sex in the missionary position in the dark with their clothes on would be aghast at some of the sexual activities mentioned on this board-does that mean that these things are wrong?

I think that most of these 'kinks' aren't new it's just that people never discussed them. I bet some men (and women) were enjoying (if you want to call it that) golden showers back in the day.

 

[Saludable84]

I’m not sure if I’m more disrurbed by this or ANR/ABF