Gemini350z
Well-Known Member
Ok Ladies-
I have a little issue, I want to know if I am being over sensitive or not. My SO and myself have been dating for two years. He is three years younger than me, I am 24 and he is 21, we are both in college. I am a very social person, I like to go out and have a good time. In my previous relationships my SO and myself would go out to the clubs, bars, shows, etc and live life. Now with my current SO he stated that he does not like to go out all that much, but that if I get him over that "hump" he wouldnt mind (because once he is out he has a good time). Its just it takes effort to get him to that point. We have been out a few times, it was cool, we both got tipsy had a good time. But a week or so later, I ask if we can do something go out etc, and he states that he doesnt really like going out with me, and would rather go out with his boy. It hurt my feelings because I really like going out and would rather be with my man, having fun than with my girls who are trying to get men. Sometimes it makes me feel like he is embarrassed with me, or he does not like all the attention I get.
Now as of late he has been going out almost every Thursday with his friend, and It makes me wonder, why is it so easy for him to get over this "hump" when his boy asks but when I ask, its a problem when I ask if he wants to go out? I have been trying to get him to do this for about two years. I am not sure what to think. Give me some advice ladies.
I have a little issue, I want to know if I am being over sensitive or not. My SO and myself have been dating for two years. He is three years younger than me, I am 24 and he is 21, we are both in college. I am a very social person, I like to go out and have a good time. In my previous relationships my SO and myself would go out to the clubs, bars, shows, etc and live life. Now with my current SO he stated that he does not like to go out all that much, but that if I get him over that "hump" he wouldnt mind (because once he is out he has a good time). Its just it takes effort to get him to that point. We have been out a few times, it was cool, we both got tipsy had a good time. But a week or so later, I ask if we can do something go out etc, and he states that he doesnt really like going out with me, and would rather go out with his boy. It hurt my feelings because I really like going out and would rather be with my man, having fun than with my girls who are trying to get men. Sometimes it makes me feel like he is embarrassed with me, or he does not like all the attention I get.
Now as of late he has been going out almost every Thursday with his friend, and It makes me wonder, why is it so easy for him to get over this "hump" when his boy asks but when I ask, its a problem when I ask if he wants to go out? I have been trying to get him to do this for about two years. I am not sure what to think. Give me some advice ladies.