Have you ever cooked for a man on the first date?

Nope..never have and never will. That means he would have to come to my place on a first date and that's NOT happening.
 
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HE cooked for me on our first date. Some kind of fish, string beans, and red potatoes. It was very fancy and very delicious. I didn't cook until after like a month of dating/hanging out nearly everyday (we're in the same class) and I made salad, tilapia, cabbage, and potatoes. I kinda told him in advance...as I'd been telling him I would cook for about 6 months lol

I'd never cook for a man on the first date. I've cooked for male friends but never someone who is pursuing me. HE needs to pursue me.
 
I've never cooked for a man on the first date. I feel like that's the time for him to win me over and do all the work to impress me. Plus, I wouldn't invite a stranger over that soon.
 
I cooked for a guy on the 1st date when I was 17. We went to a nice park & had a picnic followed by a boat ride. I offered to cook since he was paying for the boat rental.
I have never had a guy over my house for dinner on the 1st date.
 
Never. I'm also too paranoid to have a strange man all up in my house. I dont think I'd bring him home for a couple months.
 
Nah, that isn't a date in my book. Plus on a first date, I wouldn't want to go to his house and I surely wouldn't want him coming to my house.
 
No. Never have and probably won't unless we had been friends for some time already. I've cooked for almost all of my friends at some point.
 
He cooked for me on our first date....huge steaks on the grill. :lick: I cooked on our second date. :yep:


ETA: My last SO cooked for me on our first date as well. I knew both guys before we dated so I was comfortable going to their homes.
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Cali2tx said:
We worked together and pretty much spent 8 hrs a day side by side for 2 months. I have always gone with what feels right for me. I never knew it was a big deal.

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Thanks, this sounds sincere, and it worked cause he's your DH now.
 
Yes, like the other ladies, if i knew him already as a friend or from work, I'd be OK with it. But not if he was some random that chatted me up on the street and asked my number (which is usually h ow men approach me).
 
Complete technicality.

I got set up by a couple who brought their friend to a brunch I had at my home. We both count that day as our first date.
 
As the others stated, I'd rather not have a man in my home on the first date.

As far as cooking for him. I LOVE to cook for a man but I will NOT cook for him unless he's already taken me out... several times actually. Trust me, men take the path of least resistance so once you start cooking for them they will obviously want to eat YOUR cooking instead of spending money to eat at a restaurant. That's a plus on your side because they enjoy your food but you still want to be taken out occasionally.

So if you want to show off to him that you can cook, just let him taste something you cooked just so he knows you can burn. Don't let him think you made it just for him though. You know, maybe just "so happen" to have a leftover piece of chicken in your pocket when he picks you up. Just kidding LOL but you know what I mean. It's just too much too soon.
 
No i need a ring on my fangas before i serve him so much as a glass of water.
Lol.
But seriously no. Why would i? :look:

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I wouldn't do it on a first date not because of any one rule but because I'd be too nervous and it's very personal to me.
 
Cali2tx said:
We worked together and pretty much spent 8 hrs a day side by side for 2 months. I have always gone with what feels right for me. I never knew it was a big deal.

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this is different... it may have been your 1st date BUT you guys had spent a lot of time together perviously... plus yuo knew where he worked
but i still wouldn't cook for him for a loooong time
 
Jas123 said:
this is different... it may have been your 1st date BUT you guys had spent a lot of time together perviously... plus yuo knew where he worked
but i still wouldn't cook for him for a loooong time
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True......

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Naw, and I doubt I ever will. I dont really care for cooking so I would much rather just do to dinner. Now, after I have given him a title, then I may whip him up something from time to time.
 
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