Re: HATER UPDATE: \"Why do you always wear that bun?
I agree Sterry, I guess I just don't have as much patience for lowly evolved creatures! I too think the hair is the icing on the cake for all her jealousies of you Ayanapooh! She's probably jealous of your education, profession, looks, everything............and then to top it off.......you come in there with nice, beautiful long hair too!!!! She's just letting hate eat her up and I've encountered far too many people like this in my life!!! I used to stand there shocked, hurt and speechless........so shocked I couldn't even defend myself! But now that I'm older and wiser to the ways of the world, I would have spoken up for myself like Ayanapooh did!!! Lowly evolved creatures only understand the same mess they spew out sometimes! But you're right - that was HER ass-backward (excuse my language please) way of complimenting her. My cousin, who in my opinion is arguably one of the most beautiful women to ever walk the Earth, used to have this problem with Haters in the looks/face/hair/shape/clothes/style department all the time!! It was so bad in college girls used to talk behind her back when she walked by but loud enough so she could hear them! And if guys commented on her looks, girls that were nearby would always have something negative to say like "she's not all that!" I really learned watching her that it really can be difficult being absolutely strikingly gorgeous! And this sounds like the same problem you're having Ayanapooh with your hair. My cousin used to literally get sick with stomach cramps and dizziness before going to certain classes! ONce when we went to a football game at Southern Univ in Baton Rouge, she told me just listen when we walk by this row.............here it comes.........and sure enough........it did!!! She's a very very sweet person, but chicks just HATED!!! I always felt so bad for her! I thought I'd get it every now and then but for her, it was a daily way of life! AND.....some of the chicks that would hate on her were gorgeous themselves!!! Just ridiculous and sooooo hurtful!!
to ask me this today!!! Well that was that was the last straw! I kindly smiled
, and very matter-of-factly told her that I wear my hair in this plain old bun because if protects my hair from being all chewed up and split on the ends like hers! Ya'll should have SEEN the look on her face!
It was priceless! If looks could have killed, my butt would have been laid out! But she didn't say anything else to me the rest of the morning. And my judge, who's an AA woman, even nodded and winked at me as if to say "You go girl!" She had it coming, and I just smiled to myself w/ complete satisfaction!!!
