Soul♥Flower
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Just curious, how does it compare with traditional or sex dating. ( I don't know what to call it. LOL)
i had great success in 2004.....i met a guy and we waited to have sex for 18mnths....I was already 6months into my 1yr wait which turned into two...he ended up buyin a house in NC so we didnt stay together but that was the best relationship that i had in my life!!!!
Initially i didnt tell him what my plan was but eventually we talked about it and he tried me many times but i stuck to my guns and he still stuck around and treated me no different
The worst kind are the men who pretend like they are okay with celibacy and then keep trying to get you to "change your mind" because they think you must be cellibate because:
1. You don't know how good sex is
2. You are waiting for the right man (this is for those who are waiting for marriage) and he is the right one (or so he thinks )
I don't understand why men like that hang around. Do they commit to something and find it is more than they bargained for or do they love the challenge of trying to get you to bed?
I finally found one!!! :creatures
He's willing to wait until I'm ready (which will most likely be after I'm married). He's not a virgin but I am partly b/c of years of childhood molestation.
The worst kind are the men who pretend like they are okay with celibacy and then keep trying to get you to "change your mind" because they think you must be cellibate because:
1. You don't know how good sex is
2. You are waiting for the right man (this is for those who are waiting for marriage) and he is the right one (or so he thinks )
I don't understand why men like that hang around. Do they commit to something and find it is more than they bargained for or do they love the challenge of trying to get you to bed?
It is possible. (But rare.) My fiancé and I have been together for five years, and have remained celibate throughout the relationship.
Umm, wow Congrats!
I wish there were some type of Celibate Dating (is that an oxymoron.LOL) group or something, because every guy I meet is willing to wait, but only to the extent of being a gentleman, and to be honest I would rather chill with a celibate partner. I was lucky enough to meet a guy a while ago, who didn't label himself as celibate, but he liked to wait until sex was "the icing on the cake" so to speak. I stopped talking to him because he had big arms.
It is possible. (But rare.) My fiancé and I have been together for five years, and have remained celibate throughout the relationship.
I've done it successfully, with some FIONE @ss men, I might add. I only had one ask me flat out for sex. The rest were celibate also, so we had no problems.
I've done it successfully, with some FIONE @ss men, I might add. I only had one ask me flat out for sex. The rest were celibate also, so we had no problems.
A college buddy claims to be celibate. I was impressed because I don't know any other men that claim to be celibate.
CO-SIGN!!!!!
I have not had a problem meeting or keeping men with my celibate status. Nine times out of 10 I can tell very early on (like week 1) who won't be able to handle it so I diplomatically and respectfully tell them what the deal is so that nobody's time is wasted.
The others are just like "Ok." and we press on. It's not easy, but I think once you commit to not even entertaining the idea, it becomes much easier to weed out guys who can't deal...and you attract those who will.