SincerelyJane
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Anybody else see this a lot? I used to hang out a lot with my guy friends on a regular basis and I feel like maybe half of those who proposed or got married in the last 2 yrs, were acting like single men all the up until they proposed. Not just cheating, but actually courting other woman. Some continued acting up after.
What is that about? Now I see it as normal, but I used to find it very bizarre. Because no one is forcing these guys to get married. Its also odd because often they act like they don't even like the women they are getting married too! And I know people complain about their spouses often, but these men are also cheating regularly.
I just found out a friend recently proposed to a girl he's been dating this past week, and while I know the fiance and like her, I can't help but feel bad for my friend who is going to be very upset when she hears this because he's been stringing her along for months. Maybe it will stop now that he's engaged, but I don't know. He's already showed his character, right?
Why do guys do this? From my observations, a lot of these guys seem to cite a lot of social pressure to get married because they had dated these women since college. But they also don't seem to look forward to marriage at all. I just feel like I'm a little bit young for these jaded views toward marriage, but I can't help but have them. I am one of those people who always ends up knowing a lot personal info about a lot of people, and I think my nosiness is coming back to bite me in the butt.
What is that about? Now I see it as normal, but I used to find it very bizarre. Because no one is forcing these guys to get married. Its also odd because often they act like they don't even like the women they are getting married too! And I know people complain about their spouses often, but these men are also cheating regularly.
I just found out a friend recently proposed to a girl he's been dating this past week, and while I know the fiance and like her, I can't help but feel bad for my friend who is going to be very upset when she hears this because he's been stringing her along for months. Maybe it will stop now that he's engaged, but I don't know. He's already showed his character, right?
Why do guys do this? From my observations, a lot of these guys seem to cite a lot of social pressure to get married because they had dated these women since college. But they also don't seem to look forward to marriage at all. I just feel like I'm a little bit young for these jaded views toward marriage, but I can't help but have them. I am one of those people who always ends up knowing a lot personal info about a lot of people, and I think my nosiness is coming back to bite me in the butt.