Last month I hung out with an old college friend. I hadn't seen him in years but sporadically we would give updates on how we were doing via email. One time he invited me to visit up where he was staying at the time but I never really got back to him on that.
Anyway about a month ago, I suggested we catch up and meet for lunch. I thought it was going to be casual but after the meet up I wanted to see him/talk to him more. He sent me an email saying he had a great time but didn't say anything about another meeting. I sent one back mirroring his, then he sent me another one saying when I'm free we should hang out again.
In the past month, I expressed interest in hanging with him but our schedules always conflicted. He called and told me to tell him when i would be free. About a week ago, I called and asked if he wanted to join me for lunch. We hung out and had a good time, BUT at the end of the "date" I made a HUGE mistake and paid for both of our meals. It WASN'T intentional- I just put my card down and the waitress was really fast with picking it up. I could see he was a bit uncomfortable with what had happened but he said next time he would get the tab.
When I get ready to go back to my car, he hugs me, kisses me on my neck and says that if I want, he would pay for ticket out to his area to come see him. I said "maybe over the summer-I dunno yet"
He hasn't called in the week and my friends say I should contact him soon about going out of town to see him since he brought it up and a kiss on the neck means something.
I'm at a lost because I thought if someone was interested, they would call or something, but on the other hand he says he would pay for a ticket to see him out west. I dunno if what he was saying was B.S. either.
Any advice ladies? I wouldn't mind hanging out with him more-we laugh a lot and going out of town would be neat. But I don't want be doing all the work, appearing needy or not be reading this situation for what it is. What should I do? Also, I added him on myspace-should I delete him if it doesn't pan out?
Anyway about a month ago, I suggested we catch up and meet for lunch. I thought it was going to be casual but after the meet up I wanted to see him/talk to him more. He sent me an email saying he had a great time but didn't say anything about another meeting. I sent one back mirroring his, then he sent me another one saying when I'm free we should hang out again.
In the past month, I expressed interest in hanging with him but our schedules always conflicted. He called and told me to tell him when i would be free. About a week ago, I called and asked if he wanted to join me for lunch. We hung out and had a good time, BUT at the end of the "date" I made a HUGE mistake and paid for both of our meals. It WASN'T intentional- I just put my card down and the waitress was really fast with picking it up. I could see he was a bit uncomfortable with what had happened but he said next time he would get the tab.
When I get ready to go back to my car, he hugs me, kisses me on my neck and says that if I want, he would pay for ticket out to his area to come see him. I said "maybe over the summer-I dunno yet"
He hasn't called in the week and my friends say I should contact him soon about going out of town to see him since he brought it up and a kiss on the neck means something.
I'm at a lost because I thought if someone was interested, they would call or something, but on the other hand he says he would pay for a ticket to see him out west. I dunno if what he was saying was B.S. either.
Any advice ladies? I wouldn't mind hanging out with him more-we laugh a lot and going out of town would be neat. But I don't want be doing all the work, appearing needy or not be reading this situation for what it is. What should I do? Also, I added him on myspace-should I delete him if it doesn't pan out?
. Its a sign that he's interested, but not necessarily in a relationship. Just approach him with caution so you can figure out what he's true intentions are.
