Naturelie
New Member
First of all, I would like to apologize: I'm French and don't really speak (or write) english very well.
I wanted to do that post cause people often talk about transitioning but some of us never relaxed.
For the natural haired ladies in this case, it could be interesting to know why.
It could help us understanding what to do to make young ladies appreciate their kinks and curls.
Personally, I never relaxed cause, I've found out some years later, my mum who is relaxed, have always regretted to have done so when she was younger. She is still relaxed cause she thinks she would not be able to deal with her natural hair - despite of all my encouragements (...maybe one day).
So, she never makes me think that kinky hair was less interesting than other hair types. So, I never consider relaxing (even though I didn't know how to really take care of my mane, either my mom).
If you're in the case, why didn't you ever relax? And if you're not in the case, what do you intend to do or say to make your daughter appreciate their natural hair?
(Hope I didn't make to much mistakes lol...thanks for your indulgence)
I wanted to do that post cause people often talk about transitioning but some of us never relaxed.
For the natural haired ladies in this case, it could be interesting to know why.
It could help us understanding what to do to make young ladies appreciate their kinks and curls.
Personally, I never relaxed cause, I've found out some years later, my mum who is relaxed, have always regretted to have done so when she was younger. She is still relaxed cause she thinks she would not be able to deal with her natural hair - despite of all my encouragements (...maybe one day).
So, she never makes me think that kinky hair was less interesting than other hair types. So, I never consider relaxing (even though I didn't know how to really take care of my mane, either my mom).
If you're in the case, why didn't you ever relax? And if you're not in the case, what do you intend to do or say to make your daughter appreciate their natural hair?
(Hope I didn't make to much mistakes lol...thanks for your indulgence)