Kinkyhairlady
Well-Known Member
I've been talking to this guy in Haiti for the past year and recently started talking to him on a serious relationship level. I am friends with his younger brother who lives here and who introduce us to each other. The more I talk to him the more I am starting to have feelings for him. The problem is of course that he lives in Haiti and I live here in the U.S. I have no intentions of going to Haiti anytime soon either due to the violence I see going on over there. He does not have a visa so he can not visit. We chat via video cam every night and he is literally everything I am looking for in a man except he is over there( there always seems to be a barrier). I have been praying God for a good man but I am getting very confused because, here I have this guy who I adore without ever physically meeting him but we can't really be together cause we live so far apart. Has anyone been in this situation and if so what did you do. I know the easy thing is to go to Haiti but I really do not know anything about Haiti and quite frankly I would be very afraid going alone since I don't have any family there now. It just seems like to much for me and I am not sure if it is worth it. I really don't know what to do.