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kinchen said:that is very funny because this 4a/b hair of mine could not fake 3c no matter what i did to it ...
I know that's right...same here!
kinchen said:that is very funny because this 4a/b hair of mine could not fake 3c no matter what i did to it ...
Country gal said:She sounds like she has been long time member of that other board.
Super_Hero_Girl said:I recently read a topic on this board where someone continuously applied large amounts of products to her hair to get a curly/3c style texture, becuase she wanted her hair to appear to be "good hair" (her words) and never wore her hair with her natural texture showing. quote]
I believe you are talking about my post, but you need to re-read it because you mis-quoted me. I don't want to cause a fight here, but I hate when people do that and I thought I'd voice my displeasure publicly.
Super_Hero_Girl said:The obsession with curly/looser hair rather than nappy is rampant on this board and it's also great in "real life" as well, so if someone wants to have a great sense of pride in wearing their natural texture then more power to them! When I notice threads like the one's I mentioned above then it is evident where strong ideas about braidouts can arise from. Sure, some people who posted to this topic may not do their braidouts for reasons that the OP's friend mentioned, but there are plenty of others to counter that, even if they won't admit it. The obsession with curl definition is evident all around, so I can understand where the OP's friend might be coming from.... It sounds like the op's friend is just a person confortable in herself and her opinons.
jwhitley6 said:Super_Hero_Girl said:I recently read a topic on this board where someone continuously applied large amounts of products to her hair to get a curly/3c style texture, becuase she wanted her hair to appear to be "good hair" (her words) and never wore her hair with her natural texture showing.
I believe you are talking about my post, but you need to re-read it because you mis-quoted me. I don't want to cause a fight here, but I hate when people do that and I thought I'd voice my displeasure publicly.
dynamic1 said:I don't believe in Andre's system. However, anyone with "3 B/Cish" hair can make a fro. So are they being accused of faking type "4b" hair? I doubt it.
To each his own.
Super_Hero_Girl said:No uproar from me I do not mind the "public disagreement" and I have no need to argue, it's all love and honesty from me. I did go back and re-read your topic as you directed.... and I still get the same message from it.
Super_Hero_Girl said:I recently read a topic on this board where someone continuously applied large amounts of products to her hair to get a curly/3c style texture, becuase she wanted her hair to appear to be "good hair" (her words) and never wore her hair with her natural texture showing. I also read a different topic on this board where numerous members were trying to convince another member that her texture was 3c instead of 4a, when it CLEARLY wasn't. The obsession with curly/looser hair rather than nappy is rampant on this board and it's also great in "real life" as well, so if someone wants to have a great sense of pride in wearing their natural texture then more power to them! When I notice threads like the one's I mentioned above then it is evident where strong ideas about braidouts can arise from. Sure, some people who posted to this topic may not do their braidouts for reasons that the OP's friend mentioned, but there are plenty of others to counter that, even if they won't admit it. The obsession with curl definition is evident all around, so I can understand where the OP's friend might be coming from.... It sounds like the op's friend is just a person confortable in herself and her opinons.
Right.. If I think waves are cute then so be it ... its not that seriousChinagem said:I think she (and others that think that way) take their hair too seriously. IT'S JUST HAIR! GEESH! It's a hairstyle. That's it. I don't think it's faking anything.
ThickHair said:This is what I get from her post. Not that people do a twistout to fake being a 3c. I think it is when people do a twist out and tell people that is there natural hair curl definition.
beyondcute said:Here's what I think... I think that when the only style you wear is a twist out or you continuously load products on your hair to weigh down and stretch out the curls you might as well get a texturizer.
beyondcute said:Here's what I think... I think that when the only style you wear is a twist out or you continuously load products on your hair to weigh down and stretch out the curls you might as well get a texturizer. Her opinion was asked and she gave an aswer. She likes the beauty of her natural texture without the aid or rollers or twists etc. When people do twist outs they are trying to get their hair to have defined ringlets. When they do a braid out they are trying to get defined krimps. I think that if she wants to wear her hair naturally without having it resemble a texture that is not naturally hers then thats okay. Not militant at all. Recently I have come to grips that 3c hair does nor exist. It was made up for those peopel who didnt exactly fit into the 3b or 4a category but thats goes to show that everyone doesnt fit into every category. I say bump the typing system. My hair is unique. Doesnt fit anyones type.... Its type M3
JCoily said:I agree with you that 3C doesn't exist.
I also respect ole girls right to wear her hair as she wants.
With that said, I do see the militancy in what she is doing and it's kind of sad. "I'm not going to explore the versatility of my hair and the options that are open to me just in case somebody thinks I'm doing it because I of self hatred." Does it make you more free if you limit yourself?
As for the people who only wear twistouts or use curl defining product, etc. - I think that if we could step out of the 'it's about black self hate' and acknowledge that it is human to appreciate symetry-maybe the issue wouldn't be so divisive. Perfectly defined hair in whatever form is symetrical. That is why in their hay day halo afros were more mainstream than chunky ones. So why would people not seek symetry when it comes to other hair styles?
jwhitley6 said:JCoily, I always love your posts...just thought I'd let you know.
That may very well be true, but I haven't seen anyone here at LHCF with this attitude of "My Hair Doesn't Act Right or It Looks A Hot Mess So I'm Gonna' Load It With Products To Make It Look Like Good Hair". I think that's the main reason why dynamic1 is questioning what you said...beyondcute said:me again :
Pardon me. I this was MY logic.... Also known as an opinion but Ill try and explain further. I was speaking from my point of view and a few other naturals. I believe that my hair is fine the way it is and that without additives (whatever it may be) my hair doesnt look like a 'hot mess' as some other naturals have described thier hair. I feel as though, if you dont like your hair the way it is, the way it naturally grows out of your scalp, and you have to camoflauge it or load products onto it so it can 'act right' then you might as well texturize it or relax it so that you wont have to waste your time, money, or energy making threads about how your natural hair 'doesnt act right,' or how 'it looks a hot mess' without products in it.
Poohbear said:That may very well be true, but I haven't seen anyone here at LHCF with this attitude of "My Hair Doesn't Act Right or It Looks A Hot Mess So I'm Gonna' Load It With Products To Make It Look Like Good Hair". I think that's the main reason why dynamic1 is questioning what you said...
dynamic1 said:"Be Easy"