I have been divorced from my husband for 5 years, as of this coming December. We were together for 12 years, married 7 of those years. We no longer have issues and since we did not have children, we didn't have to speak so a strange relationship evolved about 2 years ago. There was NO sexual contact since 6 months BEFORE we seperated. Nah ladies he is not trying to get back with me, I told him when our dysfunctional nonmarried relationship began that I was not having any of that. We only speak a few times a year anyway.
Homeboy just called me and told me he has a 3 month old and he knows that he messed up. He had 2.5 more years left on child support from his youngest and now he has a new born. I chuckled and then ask, what did he want me to do about it. I ask, why didn't he use a condom and he never responded. I just ask was he going to do anything crazy and he said no, he just needed someone outside of his family to vent too. I told him to talk to the lady and he said, the whole situation is messed up.
What should I tell him or should I just listen to him vent? My snarky comments are done, but I really don't know what to say. I was just thinking what would I tell my brother and I came up blank because my ex is 40 and he should have known better. I suspect that he has other children out there. I was responsible for contraception in our relationship because at times he was very lax and I knew I did not want to get knocked up.
Homeboy just called me and told me he has a 3 month old and he knows that he messed up. He had 2.5 more years left on child support from his youngest and now he has a new born. I chuckled and then ask, what did he want me to do about it. I ask, why didn't he use a condom and he never responded. I just ask was he going to do anything crazy and he said no, he just needed someone outside of his family to vent too. I told him to talk to the lady and he said, the whole situation is messed up.
What should I tell him or should I just listen to him vent? My snarky comments are done, but I really don't know what to say. I was just thinking what would I tell my brother and I came up blank because my ex is 40 and he should have known better. I suspect that he has other children out there. I was responsible for contraception in our relationship because at times he was very lax and I knew I did not want to get knocked up.
at him.
