MsBoinglicious
Well-Known Member
Hey ladies! It’s a slow day huh?
Okay! SO! The other day a co-worker and I were talking about LF’s. I told her I wanted a nice cheap one probably shoulder length for the winter. She asked why (I didn’t feel like explaining protective styling and this whole hair world we are in) so I just said “because I want to be lazy this winter”! So there is another co-worker here who is natural. She is older and she wears a puff most of the time. Her hair Is really nice and bouncy and when straight it’s a nice bob, above shoulders length. I told the other co-worker I wanted a LF kind of like her hair.
The co-worker was like “WHY, look at her roots she needs a perm on it”. I said “well okay, but I bet you no one ever asks her if her hair is real or not! And my co-worker was like “well, yeah that’s true”.
So Ladies (relaxed, natural and all those in between) when you flatiron/straighten your hair but you still a lil wave at the roots. Do you find people automatically assume it’s your REAL hair? And when your roots are pin straight people kind of assume it may be a weave?
I mean when I was relaxed and blond I would leave a lil wave at the roots on purpose so I didn’t have to worry about people asking if it was my real hair. People would say “ohhh your hair is so cute, it’s so long and pretty ooohh ahhh”. And when it was really straight at the roots it’s was “ooh is dat yo’ real hair gurl”. I mean who buys a straight weave with new growth...right?
Do you find this to be true or false for you?
Okay! SO! The other day a co-worker and I were talking about LF’s. I told her I wanted a nice cheap one probably shoulder length for the winter. She asked why (I didn’t feel like explaining protective styling and this whole hair world we are in) so I just said “because I want to be lazy this winter”! So there is another co-worker here who is natural. She is older and she wears a puff most of the time. Her hair Is really nice and bouncy and when straight it’s a nice bob, above shoulders length. I told the other co-worker I wanted a LF kind of like her hair.
The co-worker was like “WHY, look at her roots she needs a perm on it”. I said “well okay, but I bet you no one ever asks her if her hair is real or not! And my co-worker was like “well, yeah that’s true”.
So Ladies (relaxed, natural and all those in between) when you flatiron/straighten your hair but you still a lil wave at the roots. Do you find people automatically assume it’s your REAL hair? And when your roots are pin straight people kind of assume it may be a weave?
I mean when I was relaxed and blond I would leave a lil wave at the roots on purpose so I didn’t have to worry about people asking if it was my real hair. People would say “ohhh your hair is so cute, it’s so long and pretty ooohh ahhh”. And when it was really straight at the roots it’s was “ooh is dat yo’ real hair gurl”. I mean who buys a straight weave with new growth...right?
Do you find this to be true or false for you?
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