movado32k1
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Hi ladies. I just want to ask if anyone has experienced issues when your husband had a way higher libido than you did. For us sex happens 4-6 times a week. Every few months my husband complains that I never initiate/want sex and that I don't think about it. I never refuse if he wants it but he wants me to initiate and because he always initiates he views me as not sexual. I do admit that in my mind if I'm having sex or we are doing sexual acts 4-6 times a week what time is left for me to want it, I don't have enough of a cooling off period to be hot and bothered. So admittedly, in the last few years there has been less than 5 times that I can remember when I was ready to pounce on him and at those time it was because he was away for two to three weeks. He is right I just don't think about it anymore because it is kind of a forgone conclusion that it will happen and I am busy thinking about other things like work and bills. His argument is that regardless, I should want it. Is something wrong with me? Has anyone else experienced this, if so are there any herbal remedies anyone can suggest. Any books I can read? I would hate to loose my husband over this he is a great man. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.