prettygrl
New Member
Okay. I am pushing 31 and have a "crush" on someone. He's 44. and white. You will see why that might be important in a moment.
Anyway, I interact with this person only occassionaly in a business setting. Recently, He wanted me to do something business wise that I found totally unacceptable and I told him off-- as politely as possible. Days later, his business partner came in and told me that he had talked to "John" about me.
I said, "oh yeah. I'm sure he hates me we kept going round and round about some things he wanted business wise and I told him no"
Business parter, "Oh no...He Doesn't hate you..." Later, on he said "when are you going to go out with John"
ME: "Not now going through a break up"
Fastforward a few weeks. His partner comes back in and asks me if "I've heard from John and is my break up finalized."
In the mean time I've come to the realization that I am really attracted to John. He is really handsome, even though I never paid attention before. I added him as a friend on FB and have seen him one more time since. I think he might have been flirting but I'm not sure. (He made a point to say bye to me 2-times and kept trying to hand me stuff-and then would teasingly pull it away)
My question is how do I get this man's attention and let him know I am interested? I don't want to be direct b/c if he turns me down we have to work together in the future...and I don't want to embarass myself! but I definitely want to convey my interest.
I only mentioned the age/race difference b/c I think it maybe that makes it harder for him to approach me.
What do you all think? I hardly ever post here. But really need suggestions. I was thinking about poking him on FB, but think maybe that's a little lame........
TIA!
Anyway, I interact with this person only occassionaly in a business setting. Recently, He wanted me to do something business wise that I found totally unacceptable and I told him off-- as politely as possible. Days later, his business partner came in and told me that he had talked to "John" about me.
I said, "oh yeah. I'm sure he hates me we kept going round and round about some things he wanted business wise and I told him no"
Business parter, "Oh no...He Doesn't hate you..." Later, on he said "when are you going to go out with John"
ME: "Not now going through a break up"
Fastforward a few weeks. His partner comes back in and asks me if "I've heard from John and is my break up finalized."
In the mean time I've come to the realization that I am really attracted to John. He is really handsome, even though I never paid attention before. I added him as a friend on FB and have seen him one more time since. I think he might have been flirting but I'm not sure. (He made a point to say bye to me 2-times and kept trying to hand me stuff-and then would teasingly pull it away)
My question is how do I get this man's attention and let him know I am interested? I don't want to be direct b/c if he turns me down we have to work together in the future...and I don't want to embarass myself! but I definitely want to convey my interest.
I only mentioned the age/race difference b/c I think it maybe that makes it harder for him to approach me.
What do you all think? I hardly ever post here. But really need suggestions. I was thinking about poking him on FB, but think maybe that's a little lame........
TIA!