Danene5
New Member
I have a male friend and on last night he expressed that he once had strong feelings for me and wanted to be in a relationship with me. For the past 3 months we have been hanging out more trying to get to know each other better. He went on vacation last week and swore that he told me but didn't. I called him on numerous occassions and sent him texts to see what was going on. He later told me that he was on vacation and didn't want to talk to anyone and that he would talk to me when he came back. So for 7 days I hear nothing from this man. I felt like I was being ignored and told him how I felt because I wasn't informed of the vacation and I hate to be ignored
. I could kind of tell that he had feelings for me and I had feelings for him. To make a long story short I slept with him 2 times. I had explained why I was upset and he felt that I had no right to be upset. He also stated that he doesn't like the fact that it is so possible for me to get very upset. That chick that gets mad like that he doesn't like. But the side of me that he sees all the time he is madly crazy in love about. I asked if there was a way for us to work things out and he said that as for now we can only be friends. Although he wants a friendship still, he doesn't call anymore or say anything to me. Is my friendship over or does he need time just to get over a few things? I could almost see tears in his eyes when we were discussing this. I just don't know what to do. I feel that we could have had something great and my temper flared and it is probably over. Do I contact him or just give him space?
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