Kamilah
Member
So, although I'm newly active on the board, I've been lurking for well over a year now. Finally, I am starting to have some noticeable results (thankfully!). When my mom and sister asked me what I had been doing, I told them with no hesitation. However, before my sister got ready to go back to university, my mom instructed her not to tell her friends about her new hair regimen- to which she replied that she never would have.
Is it me in my naivete thinking that if you've got something good, share it? I mean, it doesn't cost me anything nor is it any skin off of my back to help another sister out. Really, if it weren't for you all sharing with me, I wouldn't be where I am now.
What is your take on this? Perhaps not referring ladies to the site (or maybe) but just telling them what you use and how you maintain your hair...is that so wrong? In my opinion it's sort of a crabs-in-a-barrel mentality not to. Are we in that deep a "competition" with one another? (if so, what the heck is the prize?)
Frankly, I am disgusted by the stereotype that Black women cannot grow our hair and I do what I can do help others overcome their adversities also.
Discuss.
Is it me in my naivete thinking that if you've got something good, share it? I mean, it doesn't cost me anything nor is it any skin off of my back to help another sister out. Really, if it weren't for you all sharing with me, I wouldn't be where I am now.
What is your take on this? Perhaps not referring ladies to the site (or maybe) but just telling them what you use and how you maintain your hair...is that so wrong? In my opinion it's sort of a crabs-in-a-barrel mentality not to. Are we in that deep a "competition" with one another? (if so, what the heck is the prize?)
Frankly, I am disgusted by the stereotype that Black women cannot grow our hair and I do what I can do help others overcome their adversities also.
Discuss.