Do you or will you submit to your husband?

[sunnydaze]

For the most part, I truly want the man to be the head of the household and to submit to him as I know whatever he is doing, thinking, being, gives glory to God and is in the best interest of our family unit.

BUT..I can say that I made a huge mistake in my now ending marriage by submitting to someone who was not worthy. I was submitting out of fear and not respect..and it ended up being a disaster.

 

[RZILYNT]

I will always submit to my husband unless he goes against scriptual principle. (That is neverHe submits to God.)
A man that loves his wife will treat her as he would his own body Ephesians 5:28-33

He will treat her according to knowledge 1 Peter 3:7

When shown that kind of love, a wife will submit with no problem. He also respects her as an individual and trust her judgement on matters even though he may have the last say he will consider her opinion and there is nothing wrong with doing things per the wifes liking. What did the Lord say to Abraham " Listen to your wife" Sarah had good sense and was looking out for the benefit of the entire family and Abraham did just so. Hagar had to go.
RZ~

 

[Butterfly08]

My hubby is a GOD fearing man and has the heart of GOD. We may not agree all the time but he has the final say in everything. If he is wrong he will come to me afterwards and correct it if need be but I submit to him and he respects and considers my feelings. Thats very important, that your hubby considers you in everything. That way whatever decision is made, its not about what he wants but what we want. He will never go against me and I will never go against him. We make decisions together but he ultimately has the final say so. But as long has his heart and face is toward the Lord, I will trust his decisions because I know that GOD led him that way.

I LOVE your post. That is exactly the way a Godly marriage should be.