CaribbeanQueen
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that your partner doesn't know about?
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fkin as* wholeMy mother told me and my five sisters to always keep some money set aside that the husband doesn't know about. Several years ago a co-worker mentioned that she had managed to save some money and then mentioned it to her husband. As soon as he found out about it he found a reason for them to spend it.
Yes, I do, and I am teaching my daughters to do the same if they ever get married.
I would do the same.
I dont know why it has to be a secret. Both people should have their own separate savings, in addition to a joint savings (if they have one).
I agree with the yours, mines our aspect to accounts but I also believe a woman should have an additional secret account... history has shown me that as soon as he finds out about the stash, he will suddenly be short that amount of money or wont have $ to contribute to something....
or for when he acts a plumb fool... Madea aint taught yall nuffin??
It's my money and it's not hidden. I don't tell him about my financial affairs. Even if I was married I'm still going have my own money that he has nothing to with.
It's my money and it's not hidden. I don't tell him about my financial affairs. Even if I was married I'm still going have my own money that he has nothing to with.