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Ever?...even when he's obviously out of line or asking for it?
With all the constant "black women have attitudes" being tossed around more than usual, have you scaled it back and adopted a "i don't want to appear as the angry black woman" towards my man?
Or will u still get em' told if need be? I'm usually not the one for any type of confrontation so I'm use to biting my tongue...but now I think I'm soft as pudding. I try only to address any issue when I'm calm or in a descent mood.
I think I've read here a few times where the OP may have said, "i let him have it" and posters would follow up to say "well you shouldn't have done that" or the advice is usually "don't go off on him" etc. So just wondering, what are your thoughts?
With all the constant "black women have attitudes" being tossed around more than usual, have you scaled it back and adopted a "i don't want to appear as the angry black woman" towards my man?
Or will u still get em' told if need be? I'm usually not the one for any type of confrontation so I'm use to biting my tongue...but now I think I'm soft as pudding. I try only to address any issue when I'm calm or in a descent mood.
I think I've read here a few times where the OP may have said, "i let him have it" and posters would follow up to say "well you shouldn't have done that" or the advice is usually "don't go off on him" etc. So just wondering, what are your thoughts?