Some I felt that I loved. But for most of my past relationships I have always gotten closure, either right before it ended or immediately afterwards. My relationship motto is : Give them 100%. Show them love and respect. Which is why all of my exes have high regards for me. They would love to give it another shot. But for me... You have one chance to get it right: show me that you can honor, love and respect. And when I have decided you are either not mature enough or just too broken ... I quietly plan my emotional exit. When I exit emotionally... There is no re-entry. Yeah... We can remain friends (although you will not interfere with any of my future relationships). I never have regrets about my decisions....and I have had my share of loooong and short term relationships. I am not at all bitter or resentful. I take my lesson and keep it moving.For the women who answer no, is it because you didn't love them? Does love make a difference in whether you miss them or not?
Because I break up with men for a reason. And I never forget. And just the fact that we broke up leaves a very bad taste when it comes to them. I have three true EX's, all relationships lasted longer than a year. I harbor no ill feelings towards two, but they don't cross my mind ever. The third one I would drop whatever I was doing and beat the living life outta himFor the women who answer no, is it because you didn't love them? Does love make a difference in whether you miss them or not?
For the women who answer no, is it because you didn't love them? Does love make a difference in whether you miss them or not?
For me it's pretty easy not to miss a man or men who took my love for granted and mistreated me. Like what is there to miss?
For the women who answer no, is it because you didn't love them? Does love make a difference in whether you miss them or not?
I don't because when I give a relationship a chance- I am all in. When I have nothing else to give- I walk away.How come some people miss their ex's and some don't?
So far I have genuinely loved 3 men (two the relationship was 4+ years) and really liked a lot of guys I dated. I am with the 3rd, the other two cheated. Maybe because they cheated why I don't miss them. I doubt it though.For the women who answer no, is it because you didn't love them? Does love make a difference in whether you miss them or not?
I only miss my ex in the sense that I was sexually free with him.
Anytime anywhere....I haven't met anyone that I wanted to be free like that with since.
Plus he had a 11-Inches.
I only miss my ex in the sense that I was sexually free with him.
Anytime anywhere....I haven't met anyone that I wanted to be free like that with since.
Plus he had a 11-Inches.
You would be surprised--- My childhood friend did the same thing to a guy she loved about 8-9 years ago. She was the love of his life. She messed that relationship up. He didn't give her the time of day for 5 years- until 2014, when I called him up and just asked him to talk to her (He and I met later and became good friends, then I found out they knew each other/dated). He told me that he planned on speaking to her anyway- and me calling him just affirmed his choice. They spoke, caught up, she owned her bad behavior and they started seeing each other again. Earlier this year, they got engaged and she moved to his state to be with him.I miss one of my ex's. I actually ruined the relationship. I get scared when relationships start going in the direction of marriage. I knew he was going to pop the question and I started ignoring his calls, avoiding him and just all kinds of stuff. I am a self saboteur in relationships. That's so weird because I only date marriage minded men and I really want to be married...but when it starts getting really serious a shut down. I need to seek counseling.
Given the chance, I would definitely give it another try. I don't think he would trust me with his heart again. I hurt him deeply.