It may be time for me to take a break from this board lol because certain trends are becoming bothersome to me. In this instance, this condescending attitude towards black, homosexual males.
I also find it interesting that many, many women can and do overlook several things about a man's past - financial blunders, prior infidelity, prior philandering, etc. And as someone mentioned up-thread - women somehow get a pass for their 'college days/experimenting', or it's okay for them to watch lesbian porn, etc. And that's alllll okay.
To answer the question - I have respect for any person who is honest about who they are and what they struggle(d) with. I can't say one way or the other what I'd do, because it greatly depends on the person and what they've shown me over the course of our interactions. But I can't see myself writing someone off because they had a different past that what is "traditional".
Now lemme log off for a while.. lol.