Do/will u look/feel more attractive with long hair?

[Missi]

I definitely think with certain outfits: longer hair is a must.

When my hair was at shoulder length: i could do the flip up with certain outfits: but if I wanted to wear a tube top or beater: i would like my hair to lay down my back:

i had see-thru ends so when I wore my hair down w/o a jacket: you could see through my ends from the front: and I didn't like that. My hair was very stiff: so when i bend my head down: my ends were bent and didn't fall: so having long hair has its benifits.

 

[chestnutblonde]

I've had the full range of hairstyles/length...the "Halle Berry haircut", to the inbetween "Rihanna bob", to long mid back hair and I can honestly say that I feel/look the same (attractive-wise) at all lengths.

Right now I'm at neck length (6 months into growing my hair back from my Halle cut) and I love it...it's nice, shiny, bouncy, and most importantly HEALTHY!!!

So in a round about way, I guess as long as my hair looks and is healthy I feel attractive...lol

 

[charmtreese]

To be honest I use to think that I felt and looked more attractive with longer hair, even if the long hair wasn't mine! However now that my hair is 100X's healthier then before I started caring for it I feel attractive even without it being BSL. Thats not to say Im content with my current length, Im still striving for healthier, longer locks!!!

 

[CheLala13]

I def feel like I'll be more confident with my long hair. Oh, you don't even KNOW how many dreams I've had about having long hair & when I wake up how very blown I am that its a dream. Now THAT sucks, but I see myself at APL by the end of this year!

 

[LunadeMiel]

I definitely look and feel that I look better and sexier with long hair. I can't wait until reach my goal length of WL unstreched....Won't nobody be able to tell me nuffin....

 

[janeera1]

I don't think I look better with longer hair really. I think its HEALTHY hair that makes a difference. Whenever I wear weaves I think I look much more attractive, but it doesn't have to be long. Its just thicker, shinier, bouncier and cut well. So, although I am trying to grow my hair, I want to grow a HEALTHY head of long hair!

 

[cieramichele]

My mind keeps telling me to BC
I have a long narrow head and a TWA wont look right on me.
I want to see my 3b curls on their own SOOOOO bad

 

[nuwoman02]

I've had longer hair and felt more attractive. I cut it last summer and I am trying to grow it out. I am very impatient becuase I look forward to having longer hair again and it is low maint. in my opinion.

 

[oooop2]

Nope..For me, I know I look more attractive and feel more confident w/ my boycut. I just decided to grow my hair cut since we were moving to Japan and I wouldn't be able to pay my barber a visit every 2wks. And I nor my husband is comfortable cutting my hair.

So I know for me, this hair thing won't last long...

 

[CHEEKQUEEN]

I have had short and long hair. I never had an issue with either. I look older with longer hair. I look a lot younger with short natural hair. I have gotten more compliments when I was natural and my hair was short. I prefer to have my hair long. It does make me feel sexier when I can swing it and use it to my advantage.

 

[Jynkx]

my long hair makes me feel sexier. i never ever wear my hair down when not home so my sexy feeling are just that feeling...... noone knows how long my hair is......except yall......lol.

 

[MizAvalon]

I def feel like I'll be more confident with my long hair. Oh, you don't even KNOW how many dreams I've had about having long hair & when I wake up how very blown I am that its a dream. Now THAT sucks, but I see myself at APL by the end of this year!

I know what you mean about the dreams. I haven't had one recently but I used to have them a LOT.

 

[MizAvalon]

my long hair makes me feel sexier. i never ever wear my hair down when not home so my sexy feeling are just that feeling...... noone knows how long my hair is......except yall......lol.

I wear my hair up almost all the time and I get kind of a kick being in some place somewhere knowing that I have a secret. I think to myself, "If I took this bun down..." I almost feel a sense of euphoria knowing that people have no idea what's REALLY going on.

 

[Jynkx]

I wear my hair up almost all the time and I get kind of a kick being in some place somewhere knowing that I have a secret. I think to myself, "If I took this bun down..." I almost feel a sense of euphoria knowing that people have no idea what's REALLY going on.

or when someone is in there swangin her stuff all over the place puttin waaaayyyyy too much extras on her hair, thats when im always tempted to unroll the bun and take her place on stage. but i never do.....im very reserved about things.

( i am admiting that i do look around everywhere i go and see if anyones hair is longer than mine.............. it rarely is.........)

 

[MizAvalon]

or when someone is in there swangin her stuff all over the place puttin waaaayyyyy too much extras on her hair, thats when im always tempted to unroll the bun and take her place on stage. but i never do.....im very reserved about things.

( i am admiting that i do look around everywhere i go and see if anyones hair is longer than mine.............. it rarely is.........)

Don't you just love that feeling!

And I love seeing those women just a-swanging and being all extra with their hair and thinking to myself, "Honey you have no idea." I just smile inside and keep it moving.

 

[Jynkx]

Don't you just love that feeling!

And I love seeing those women just a-swanging and being all extra with their hair and thinking to myself, "Honey you have no idea." I just smile inside and keep it moving.

YES! YES! YES! you do understand me.....lol..

 

[Casarela]

I love the way I look with long hair i look better and feel better but as time goes by I realize something that its all about confidence..Because I was looking at pictures and since I chopped my hair off my confidence was somewhat affected because Ive always perceived my hair as my crown and people feel it when youre not comfortable which is probably why I was not getting compliments as much as I use too. When I started to walk the way I use to and carry myself the way I use too ...I was getting compliments. I think that a lot of us somewhat may feel a bit less confident when our lenght is chopped off and that totally reflects in our gestures ....personally for myself I know and once you realize it and accept that its HAIR and that its only a FEATURE...and understand that hair does not define you at 100% things will change. Dont get me wrong I still get downs about my hair because im in an in between stage but it doesnt affect me AS MUCH as it use to back when I chopped everything off.

 

[Starr1]

YES! YES! YES! you do understand me.....lol..

Y'all are crazy!

But I totally know what you mean. . ..

 

[blasianbeauty]

I think that having long hair is nice - however, it's just a great "accesory" to have. I have seen women with long hair that IMO does not help them look any better if they are already unattractive, and women with short hair that are true stunners. As someone else said, it's really all about confidence. I also tthink it's about being a total package - cute face, nice body and hair that is healthy and looking good no matter the length.

 

[cupcakes]

big long hair is sooo sexy i love it and this is why i will never BC

 

[hunnybunny81]

I personally feel attractive knowing my hair is healthy and real...regardless of the length though the length does add to that feeling.

 

[sareca]

I'm much sexier with bigger hair. My hair doesn't really look long 'cause it's not and because I'm texturized.

 

[RegaLady]

I have always felt sexier, prettier, and more beautiful with shorter hair. So this is new to me. At this stage in my life, I am wanting longer hair. So I hope to feel as attractive with longer hair, as I did with shorter hair!

 

[d-rock]

When my hair is pressed and men are constantly playing with it, I'll say it's a confidence booster, so I'm definitely feeling more attractive with longer hair. At the same time I've been good at making most hair styles work for me, but I prefer it long.

 

[Ms.Nigeria]

Long hair works for me and i get hit on more lol. But short hair is more me

 

[Angkin73]

I feel like I got more compliments when I had long relaxed hair. I love both ways tho. Even when I used to rollerset it and wear a curly fro that way. It was a big fro, and I got me some nice looks from alot of the good ole country boys here.

 

[janee]

Not really. After doing the BC, I think I look way better with a TA than relaxed. I have received so many compliments on how cute I/my hair was. Someone told me, it brought out my face(I think this was a compliment ). Someone also said he liked my spirals. Never thought of my hair in this way.

Its probably not about length but the volume or how big it looks. I love it. I probably look better with big hair than straight hair no matter the length.

 

[Blackbird77]

I know I would. Tried a long weave a few years ago and I looked like a babydoll.

 

[Crystalicequeen123]

Yep, I know I will definitely feel and look more attractive with longer hair.

My hair is a little longer than my shoulders, but it's not anywhere near down my back like I want it to be. I'm still hoping to get APL by the end of this year!

I had done a big chop to neck length (the shortest I've ever cut my hair) back in the summer of 2006, and although I liked the new-found thickness and healthiness of my hair, I got tired of the short hair very quickly. I also noticed that I didn't really get any compliments on my "short hair". The only time I get compliments on my hair is when I wear it down, and it's longer. People have even flat out told me that I look much better when my hair is down and not in those "buns".

I was even looking at old pictures from 2006 (before my big hair cut), and I was saying to myself: "Wow...I look really NICE in this picture! What's different?" And then I realized...Nothing really had changed but my hair! It wasn't my makeup or my clothes, but more so that my hair was LONGER! The longest it had ever been. I just looked more feminine/fun-loving, youthful, etc. I can't explain it!

So, even though I think short hair looks good on some ladies, short hair just doesn't look that right on me. It doesn't compliment my face as much.

So yeah....I think that when my hair gets longer, I'll feel more:

-confident
-vibrant
-feminine
-attractive
-sexy

 

[LivingDoll]

Although I feel very attractive with short hair, at this point my answer is yes...I will feel more attractive with long hair.

The in-between stage is a drag. I feel like a soccer mom and that ain't sexy at all.