Re: Discouraged 4a/4bs... Diva\'s updated her album!!!
I will attempt to re-cap on Thanksgiving Day activities... although I feel my energy fading. Well, we go to a new hairdresser's on Thanksgiving morning. This is because once again, my hairdresser has "disappeared" to the Dominican Republic again. I just couldn't take it any more. It was either I relax my hair or braid it. With the constant shedding and knowing that my hypothyroidism could be playing a part, I didn't want to put any unnecessary stress on the strands and decided instead to relax as there was 7 months worth of new growth. Skip from the salon to when I take Miss K to her grandmother's house. Now the Grandmother is "dougla" (West Indian term for when an islander is mixed with Indian. Her Dad came from Indian ancestry... as in India... fellow West Indians will know what I mean.) They commented on how long Miss K's hair had gotten and soo quickly. Actually, this Thanksgiving made her one year anniversary of getting relaxers. They teased her saying she had a weave... "I don't have a weave!" as her father playfully checked her head for tracks. Now.. when Kaila's hair was short, I was to blame. My genes had to be responsible for that. Now that Miss K's hair is getting lengthy, "some" would like to believe that her hair length is from their side of the family. How do you explain my growth when I'm no kin to those people??? /images/graemlins/nono.gif Oh, well! She had even told her Grandmother that my hair was longer than her(the Grandmother's) hair. Back in the day I would think that she had long hair. However, now that my perception has changed as to what I think long hair is, I don't consider it as long as I once did. It's not brastap length, but somewhere between. Back in the day I would wear wigs and weaves, so I guess they thought it was impossible that I would even get my hair to this length. A long time ago I once heard her ask someone when she saw me pinning up my hair, "That's all ___<my name here> hair?" Mind you, it wasn't even no where the length that it is now.
OK, now I'm off to my sister in law's for dinner. I get in the house with my coat on, fedora hat on with hair down under it. Here comes my mother in law... "Tink seh yu did tell mi yuh go a hairdreser." I thought she was saying my hair looked jacked up or something, I was like, "It was raining and windy when I left the salon and I didn't have an umbrella." She was like, "How you just get yuh hair done and put on wig." I was like, "Wig!!!Mi naw wear nuh wig... a mi hair!!!" She pulled off my hat and was like, "All you hair dis? It grow? Lawd, a suh it long, all the while running her fingers through it. My in laws were like, "Your hair really grew a lot!!!" /images/graemlins/shocked.gif Throughout the night, I would find my mother in law running her fingers through my hair in awe. I kept moving around the house because with this shedding issue, I need as little manipulation as possible!!! Even one of my long haired inspirations was like, "Girl!!! It grew sooo long!!!!" There are some things that you girls can expect which I found annoying. Maybe that's why I always wear it up. My car seat belt kept pulling on my hair when I was driving. My hair was sticking to my gloss. (YUCK!) If I put my handbag strap on my shoulder it tugged on my hair.... All in all, it's definitely worth it though!!! /images/graemlins/lachen70.gif /images/graemlins/smile.gif
Onward to brastrap!!! See you girls at the finish line!!! /images/graemlins/clap.gif I would hope that I should be brastap length in the next 6 months, so I guess that puts me at June /images/graemlins/scratchchin.gif