sunshinebeautiful
Well-Known Member
Maybe a few months ago, I corresponded with, and talked on the phone to a young man I "met" via Match.com. One particular day we were supposed to have our first date in person (he lives about an hour away from me). We spoke when he was on his lunch break, decided we would go out that evening, and he would call me back once he got off of work for a final decision on the time/venue. Needless to say that evening came and went without a single phone call.
I gave him a "semi-pass" that maybe there was some kind of emergency and he would contact me the next day with at least some kind of explanation. When that didn't happen, I totally wrote him off. I figured if he was rude and inconsiderate enough to completely blow me off, then I wasn't about to chase him down. I didn't hear from this man again until he started calling my phone again a few days ago! Mind you, weeks and several holidays have elapsed since the infamous blow off.
What's up with that? Why men do stuff like this? And, no, I didn't answer or return his phone calls after the "disappearing act." I just chalked it up to "he's not that into me" and wrote him off in search of someone who is into me.
I gave him a "semi-pass" that maybe there was some kind of emergency and he would contact me the next day with at least some kind of explanation. When that didn't happen, I totally wrote him off. I figured if he was rude and inconsiderate enough to completely blow me off, then I wasn't about to chase him down. I didn't hear from this man again until he started calling my phone again a few days ago! Mind you, weeks and several holidays have elapsed since the infamous blow off.
What's up with that? Why men do stuff like this? And, no, I didn't answer or return his phone calls after the "disappearing act." I just chalked it up to "he's not that into me" and wrote him off in search of someone who is into me.