Theo
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Did any of you feel any pressure to get married? I'm just asking cuz I'm just leaving college and my friends are popping up with these engagements/ randomly serious relationships all over the place.
Now, if these couple had been together since freshman yr I could understand, but some of these couples are kinda... new. And rushed. I wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt but when I talked to some of my male friends who were actually in these relationships, they told me that they felt "trapped" and "pressured" by the females and then the females told me they felt pressured by society to be in a committed, long-term relationship by the time they graduate. erplexed
So did you feel any pressure to get married and did that influence the relationship that led to your marriage? I'm not talking about a desire to get married, but PRESSURE. Cuz looking at all these serious relationships around me, I'm starting to feel the pressure, but I don't wanna get married till I'm like 25+ and no one can make me! I LIKE being single!
Now, if these couple had been together since freshman yr I could understand, but some of these couples are kinda... new. And rushed. I wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt but when I talked to some of my male friends who were actually in these relationships, they told me that they felt "trapped" and "pressured" by the females and then the females told me they felt pressured by society to be in a committed, long-term relationship by the time they graduate. erplexed
So did you feel any pressure to get married and did that influence the relationship that led to your marriage? I'm not talking about a desire to get married, but PRESSURE. Cuz looking at all these serious relationships around me, I'm starting to feel the pressure, but I don't wanna get married till I'm like 25+ and no one can make me! I LIKE being single!