Kinkyhairlady
Well-Known Member
Hi Ladies
I have not posted in the relationship forum in a while but today I need some advice cause I’m at my wits end. DH has a friend that is new to the states which in the beginning I had no issues with but that friend seems to get DH time more then me. All week we both work, DH works overnights and since this friend has a soccer team he’s part of DH just joined. Now I would not have an issue if DH did not just get off an overnight shift and then goes to play soccer and later he has rehearsal for service in the morning. That means his whole Saturday is gone. I’m currently expecting can’t do much and things like cleaning the tub and doing laundry he could have done this morning instead of being out. I don’t think I’m being petty I just feel like he has responsibilities at home and this friend does not. DH thinks I’m being annoying complaining for nothing. If I was not pregnant I’d probably not care I’d do the chores but right now I can’t and feel neglected in a way. I’m starting to despise this friend honestly. Though he’s a nice person I just feel like if he was a real friend he’d say hey maybe you should not join the team now cause you just got out of work and you’re wife is preggo at home. That’s what a real friend would say but instead everyone is selfish in this case! I really don’t know what to do. I don’t want to stress myself cause my main priority is my baby but this is pissing me off.
I have not posted in the relationship forum in a while but today I need some advice cause I’m at my wits end. DH has a friend that is new to the states which in the beginning I had no issues with but that friend seems to get DH time more then me. All week we both work, DH works overnights and since this friend has a soccer team he’s part of DH just joined. Now I would not have an issue if DH did not just get off an overnight shift and then goes to play soccer and later he has rehearsal for service in the morning. That means his whole Saturday is gone. I’m currently expecting can’t do much and things like cleaning the tub and doing laundry he could have done this morning instead of being out. I don’t think I’m being petty I just feel like he has responsibilities at home and this friend does not. DH thinks I’m being annoying complaining for nothing. If I was not pregnant I’d probably not care I’d do the chores but right now I can’t and feel neglected in a way. I’m starting to despise this friend honestly. Though he’s a nice person I just feel like if he was a real friend he’d say hey maybe you should not join the team now cause you just got out of work and you’re wife is preggo at home. That’s what a real friend would say but instead everyone is selfish in this case! I really don’t know what to do. I don’t want to stress myself cause my main priority is my baby but this is pissing me off.