VelvetRain
Well-Known Member
I am in a bit of a dilemma. Finally went out with one of the guys I met online. Our vibe has been unreal but there are somethings I am finding it really hard to overlook. He is a bit overweight meaning having a gut. I was a bit disgusted when he opened his mouth to finally talk. Dude has jacked up teeth and not in terms of needing braces but several broken teeth where it looks like he may be missing them.
I do understand that everyone has limited finances but if you are a grown adult with a job with some sort of dental plan why can't you budget to address your issues? Your smile means a lot in the dating world and how others perceive you. I just kept thinking about why he didn't care about his oral hygiene and how he may be lacking in other areas in terms of general hygiene. I guess that is a bit extreme. I think now I am even super critical of teeth since I am wearing braces now to correct my smile. Even in braces and seeing my smile come together and improve my self esteem has skyrocketed. Even when I had crazy spacing and a few crooked teeth I still took good care of my oral hygiene.
Am I too shallow? I can deal with someone being a little overweight but the condition of his mouth is really turning me off. He already called me this morning thanking me for our date and has asked for a second date.
I do understand that everyone has limited finances but if you are a grown adult with a job with some sort of dental plan why can't you budget to address your issues? Your smile means a lot in the dating world and how others perceive you. I just kept thinking about why he didn't care about his oral hygiene and how he may be lacking in other areas in terms of general hygiene. I guess that is a bit extreme. I think now I am even super critical of teeth since I am wearing braces now to correct my smile. Even in braces and seeing my smile come together and improve my self esteem has skyrocketed. Even when I had crazy spacing and a few crooked teeth I still took good care of my oral hygiene.
Am I too shallow? I can deal with someone being a little overweight but the condition of his mouth is really turning me off. He already called me this morning thanking me for our date and has asked for a second date.