Well me any my SO split...He turned 25 ( I am 28) and finally was forced to leave his mothers house this past year because they moved out of state. This is his first time on his own and being away from his family. He has a lot of growing and maturing to do and he needs to do it by himself. I really think we were too attached to each other, meaning we pretty much didn't leave each others side the first 3 years of our relationship. Then he graduated college, started to work, make new friends and things changed. He cheated and said it was a big mistake, but he said he needed to figure out whom he was before he commit to me the way I wanted and deserved.
So we parted ways, I still miss him and want to be with him, however, right now if we decided to be in a relationship I know it would fail due to the trust issues. Right now I am working on focusing on myself without him in my life for the moment. Maybe in a couple months we can work on a friendship, but right now...I just can't..