CaraWalker
Well-Known Member
i date a lot of younger men but it's not my preference for a serious relationship. i would prefer a man slightly older.
there isnt a lot of difference to men in dating guys younger than me except the obvious, and unfortunately important, one that they have a lot more dating around in their system that they want to do. i wouldnt expect a younger guy to be interested in settling down. but of course, im still in my twenties. a younger guy for me is going to be really young as far as life.
i think i also must have a pretty immature side because for the most part i dont find the maturity level of younger men to be that off from mine. i can't say if it's because they're more mature for their age or i'm immature for mine. my ex was a couple of years older than me... i think he was 28 when we dated... and he was immature off the charts. so a few years in either direction i dont necessarily think is a good marker of emotional maturity.
one of my boys now is 24 and i would have never known it if he didn't tell me. he looks about 28, which doesnt mean he looks old, he just doesn't look like a kid. also he has a mustasche, thats probably part of it on the other hand last summer i dated a kid who was 23, and acted it. so it's really a case by case thing, i dont dismiss younger guys out of hand just because they're younger. truth be told i probably end up going out with slightly more younger guys than guys my own age.
there isnt a lot of difference to men in dating guys younger than me except the obvious, and unfortunately important, one that they have a lot more dating around in their system that they want to do. i wouldnt expect a younger guy to be interested in settling down. but of course, im still in my twenties. a younger guy for me is going to be really young as far as life.
i think i also must have a pretty immature side because for the most part i dont find the maturity level of younger men to be that off from mine. i can't say if it's because they're more mature for their age or i'm immature for mine. my ex was a couple of years older than me... i think he was 28 when we dated... and he was immature off the charts. so a few years in either direction i dont necessarily think is a good marker of emotional maturity.
one of my boys now is 24 and i would have never known it if he didn't tell me. he looks about 28, which doesnt mean he looks old, he just doesn't look like a kid. also he has a mustasche, thats probably part of it on the other hand last summer i dated a kid who was 23, and acted it. so it's really a case by case thing, i dont dismiss younger guys out of hand just because they're younger. truth be told i probably end up going out with slightly more younger guys than guys my own age.