PopLife
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Do you have couple friends, but not really care for one them?
Over the past year SO and I have made friends with a newlywed couple that lives across the street from us. They are always inviting us to do things with them or just come over and hang out. The first few times we hung out they seemed like really cool people and I thought it was nice to have another couple we could do things with.
Lately though, the husband does and says stuff that irritates me.
Mainly, he makes some type of comment about my appearance. The first time he did it we were out having drinks and out of nowhere he brings up a time we all went to dinner (a few months earlier) and how I was "all dressed up"....I thought it was kinda of weird that he would randomly bring that up, but I didn't say anything.
Another time we hung out his wife made a comment in reference to my height and me having on heels (she had on flats) and he jokingly responds that he should grab my hand and my SO grab his wife's and act like we're together...later that night he randomly brings up some big busted bimbo model that shares the same name as me and jokes how I could be the black version of her....when I tried to change the subject he insist on pulling up pictures of her on his phone.
This past weekend they invited us to an amusement park, while we were there he kept saying how he has never seen me "dressed like this" (I had on jeans and sneakers). I finally snapped and asked him what was the big deal and he says that when we go out I'm always dressed up and how he's never seen me in jeans. My SO tried to calm me down and said that I was being defensive and his wife (looking uncomfortable) says he just trying to say you dress nice. When I talked to my SO about it later on he said he understood why I was annoyed but that I could have responded better,so that I wouldn't come across as confrontational.
I know that I can be sensitive at times but I don't understand why he always has to make comments about me....it's starting to get to the point where I don't even want to hang out with them. Am I being overly sensitive because I just don't like him?
Would this annoy you, if so how would you handle comments like this?
Over the past year SO and I have made friends with a newlywed couple that lives across the street from us. They are always inviting us to do things with them or just come over and hang out. The first few times we hung out they seemed like really cool people and I thought it was nice to have another couple we could do things with.
Lately though, the husband does and says stuff that irritates me.
Mainly, he makes some type of comment about my appearance. The first time he did it we were out having drinks and out of nowhere he brings up a time we all went to dinner (a few months earlier) and how I was "all dressed up"....I thought it was kinda of weird that he would randomly bring that up, but I didn't say anything.
Another time we hung out his wife made a comment in reference to my height and me having on heels (she had on flats) and he jokingly responds that he should grab my hand and my SO grab his wife's and act like we're together...later that night he randomly brings up some big busted bimbo model that shares the same name as me and jokes how I could be the black version of her....when I tried to change the subject he insist on pulling up pictures of her on his phone.
This past weekend they invited us to an amusement park, while we were there he kept saying how he has never seen me "dressed like this" (I had on jeans and sneakers). I finally snapped and asked him what was the big deal and he says that when we go out I'm always dressed up and how he's never seen me in jeans. My SO tried to calm me down and said that I was being defensive and his wife (looking uncomfortable) says he just trying to say you dress nice. When I talked to my SO about it later on he said he understood why I was annoyed but that I could have responded better,so that I wouldn't come across as confrontational.
I know that I can be sensitive at times but I don't understand why he always has to make comments about me....it's starting to get to the point where I don't even want to hang out with them. Am I being overly sensitive because I just don't like him?
Would this annoy you, if so how would you handle comments like this?