runwaydream
Well-Known Member
im sorry but this sounds like a hot ratchet mess.
kick him to the curb and your life will improve tremendously.
kick him to the curb and your life will improve tremendously.
According to the bold, he is in no way ready to be in a relationship. AND he has the nerve to be trying to tell you how to sleep in YOUR set????When my bf moved in with me I didn't think that I would have to change how I sleep.he been here for 6months now he said I sleep to far away from him I can't help the way that I sleep.I mean I've been sleeping my way for along time so he said but your in a relationship now.the only thing I asked him to do is buy food and pay half on the phone bill I pay all the other bills so I don't no what is talking about.he has to pay child support and he only gets maybe like fourhundred dollars evey two weeks.and he has is car payment twohundred and fiftydollars every pay check.so he's all ways broke so that means he can buy food but a little here and there.we don't really talk all we do is watch tv and by 7 he's ready to go to bed not sleep but watch more tv this is all we do erplexedmy relationship is so boring
I refuse to believe this B.S is real.
All I can say is, is will only get worst. My exhusband was like above, he got real comfortable with the situation I set up for him. Yes, I am to blame for 60% of what went down and you my sista are part to blame. One day it is going to blow up in your face and you are going to be pissed. It came to a head for me and thus, he is an exhusband. Neva again, I would rather be single than deal with bull like this. BTW my ex didn't move in until we were married, it didn't make a bit of difference, but you are doing all of this for a BF, but I never should have married old boy, I saw it coming but I thought it would change. Yeah, it did, it got worst.Well he has 4 kids two are grown he all ways looks depressed I no on payday.he had his own place but he couldn't aford it so that's how he came to move with me.we have been together for along time but he said that he don't want to get married because I act like his ex wife I hate when he threw here in my face.he won't get a second job and I don't understand why he won't he helps by telling me to stop turning the ac on and off but he's not paying the bill.I he's trying to help with his mouth but that's it.I have been by myself for a long timee so for me to just change because we are in a relationship its not going to happen because he wants it to.
hell, i'd be bored to if i was sleepin wif a man dat was broke. u may want to re-evaluate your situation and getchu a new boyfriend, preferrably one who has more income.....
but then again, if ur happy where ur at...then clap ur hands.[/QUOTE]
Girl, you crazy! LOL
He can't control nothing with his broke self! OP you not even addressing the other issues in this "relationship". He is essentially a free loader..a mooch and lazy. The least he could do is have a second job.
He is living beyond his means with a $250 car note and child support and now he is cutting into your means. Put him on a pallet on the floor!
I'm confused...are you asking if he's controlling or just venting?
From what you posted, he seems like a few things, controlling isn't one of them though.
i think you should let him go...you say you guys don't even communicate anymore and really, without communication there's nothing else also someone before said you're basically paying for his child support which is true if you think about it. He let go of his apt cause he couldnt afford it and the child support but you picked up the rent part so he could continue paying his cs. He doesn't love you, dare i say, cause why would he tell you "i'm never gonna marry you?" wth? Really? So why are we together again? We don't talk, we don't go out, you don't contribute financially...it's like you gained another child also why is he only making $800 a month??? Why is he not full time? Has he been incarcerated before and can't find a better job? I think you can either do better or have him change cause it's not gonna get better and then what if he up and leaves after all you've done for him?
He can't control nothing with his broke self! OP you not even addressing the other issues in this "relationship". He is essentially a free loader..a mooch and lazy. The least he could do is have a second job.
He is living beyond his means with a $250 car note and child support and now he is cutting into your means. Put him on a pallet on the floor!
wait a minute...hold up.
*reaches n bra...grabs newport n lights one*
lemme git dis hea straight, cuz see, i only read a little bit.
u work, he work, but he only brings home 4 hunnit dollas every two weeks. he gotta pay chile support and a car note. u pay everything else, and cook and clean and he gittin some puzzy on da reg.