bluediamond0829
Well-Known Member
Last night I sat down and after having a little cry and wondering why i havent had any successful relationships with men(even in high school or college) i realized something that yes i have to account that part of it was because of my choice of men and what i wanted to shape them into being(which i know you cant shape someone into something they arent) but i finally realize what the whole problem was....ME....ive always been the one doing the chasing, pursuing the guy......well to somewhat to that extent but im a shy woman(calling, txting, going by to see them etc).....even if they did pursue me in the beginning i would take over and wear the pants down the line....and thats where the problem came in at because i ended up getting hurt time after time...for the past 28 years of my life i cant look back and say that i have had one successful relationship with any man...it always ended on a sour note....
i just wanted from here on out to try to make a change i know its not going to happen over night...but not be the one to pursue and let the man pursue me...and see what happens....i hope this made sense to anyone that reads it and can understand where im coming from....
i just wanted from here on out to try to make a change i know its not going to happen over night...but not be the one to pursue and let the man pursue me...and see what happens....i hope this made sense to anyone that reads it and can understand where im coming from....